{"id":58299,"date":"2023-09-30T13:27:22","date_gmt":"2023-09-30T13:27:22","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.getstoryshots.com\/?p=58299"},"modified":"2024-08-15T14:38:14","modified_gmt":"2024-08-15T14:38:14","slug":"the-rudest-book-ever-summary","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.getstoryshots.com\/de\/books\/the-rudest-book-ever-summary\/","title":{"rendered":"Das r\u00fcdeste Buch aller Zeiten Zusammenfassung | Shwetabh Gangwar"},"content":{"rendered":"<figure class=\"wp-block-post-featured-image\"><img decoding=\"async\" width=\"1200\" height=\"628\" src=\"https:\/\/www.getstoryshots.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/The-Rudest-Book-Ever-summary.png\" class=\"attachment-post-thumbnail size-post-thumbnail wp-post-image\" alt=\"The Rudest Book Ever summary\" style=\"object-fit:cover;\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.getstoryshots.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/The-Rudest-Book-Ever-summary.png 1200w, https:\/\/www.getstoryshots.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/The-Rudest-Book-Ever-summary-300x157.png 300w, https:\/\/www.getstoryshots.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/The-Rudest-Book-Ever-summary-1024x536.png 1024w, https:\/\/www.getstoryshots.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/The-Rudest-Book-Ever-summary-768x402.png 768w, https:\/\/www.getstoryshots.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/The-Rudest-Book-Ever-summary-18x9.png 18w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 1200px) 100vw, 1200px\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n<p><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Life gets busy. Has <em>The Rudest Book Ever<\/em> been gathering dust on your bookshelf? Instead, learn the key insights now with this summary.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>We\u2019re scratching the surface in <em>The Rudest Book Ever<\/em>&nbsp;summary. If you don\u2019t already have the book, order the&nbsp;<a href=\"https:\/\/geni.us\/rudest-book-ever-book\" data-type=\"link\" data-id=\"https:\/\/geni.us\/rudest-book-ever-book\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">book<\/a>&nbsp;or get the&nbsp;<a href=\"https:\/\/geni.us\/rudest-free-audiobook\" target=\"_blank\" data-type=\"link\" data-id=\"https:\/\/geni.us\/rudest-free-audiobook\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">audiobook for free<\/a> to learn the juicy details.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Introduction<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>Do you want to become truly intelligent and individual? You are used to being spoon-fed information from parents, teachers, and friends. When you were young, you learned to accept this information without any doubt or questioning. The \u2018knowledge\u2019 you formed about the world was not based on your thinking. Therefore, you must abandon all the packets of information you have accepted without questioning. Then, you need to start relying on data and rational thinking. This is the key to freedom!&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Shwetabh Gangwar spent years helping people to solve their problems. In the process, he identified simple patterns that regularly cropped up. Everyone\u2019s problems could be solved with a set of principles and perspectives that emphasized people taking control of their own lives.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>This is called \u2018<em>The Rudest Book Ever<\/em>\u2019 because it doesn\u2019t spare feelings. It tells you exactly as it is. It can teach you to become more emotionally self-reliant and to curb the influence of others.&nbsp;Let&#8217;s dive into The Rudest Book Ever summary.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Listen to The Audiobook Summary of The Rudest Book Ever<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<iframe frameborder=\"0\" height=\"200\" scrolling=\"no\" src=\"https:\/\/playlist.megaphone.fm\/?e=PARSIDA6874836617&#038;light=true\" width=\"100%\"><\/iframe>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">About Shwetabh Gangwar<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>Shwetabh Gangwar is a novelist, public speaker, and professional problem-solver. He has millions of social media followers. People send him their problems and he solves them with complete dedication, creating as many videos as possible.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Gangwar is known for his honest and valuable content and arguments on various topics that many ignore. This has earned him both hate and praise.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>He is often called a &#8216;men&#8217;s rights advocate&#8217; but is not a fan of the label.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-full\"><img decoding=\"async\" width=\"400\" height=\"400\" src=\"https:\/\/www.getstoryshots.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/Shwetabh-Gangwar-The-Rudest-Book-Ever-Summary.jpg\" alt=\"Shwetabh Gangwar The Rudest Book Ever Summary\" class=\"wp-image-92139\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.getstoryshots.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/Shwetabh-Gangwar-The-Rudest-Book-Ever-Summary.jpg 400w, https:\/\/www.getstoryshots.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/Shwetabh-Gangwar-The-Rudest-Book-Ever-Summary-300x300.jpg 300w, https:\/\/www.getstoryshots.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/Shwetabh-Gangwar-The-Rudest-Book-Ever-Summary-150x150.jpg 150w, https:\/\/www.getstoryshots.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/Shwetabh-Gangwar-The-Rudest-Book-Ever-Summary-12x12.jpg 12w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 400px) 100vw, 400px\" \/><figcaption class=\"wp-element-caption\">Credit: <a href=\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/realshwetabh\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Twitter.com\/realshwetabh<\/a><\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-embed is-type-video is-provider-youtube wp-block-embed-youtube wp-embed-aspect-16-9 wp-has-aspect-ratio\"><div class=\"wp-block-embed__wrapper\">\n<span class=\"TwMH8vAI5jsFxuO1egnp78QZ4DHcFxqN2yTRzLwcJf3Sar6jykYI9trL0UAnpKkhmuC02b415bmgMiQ3X6B7DXUWl\"><iframe title=\"The Rudest Book Every Summary (by Shwetabh Gangwar) - Unleash Your Inner Power\" width=\"720\" height=\"405\" src=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/gaHr3Zzqz78?feature=oembed\" frameborder=\"0\" allow=\"accelerometer; autoplay; clipboard-write; encrypted-media; gyroscope; picture-in-picture; web-share\" referrerpolicy=\"strict-origin-when-cross-origin\" allowfullscreen><\/iframe><\/span>\n<\/div><figcaption class=\"wp-element-caption\">Animated Book Summary of The Rudest Book Ever<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">StoryShot #1: You Have to Learn How to Think<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>You may often have found yourself thinking that people are idiots. But no one is born an idiot. Rather, we unknowingly choose to be idiots, since we aren&#8217;t shown the techniques of how to think.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>A person who is brought up being told what to think will, in general, accept those thoughts. However, someone raised to think will, in general, question them. Adults are merely children who have grown in age. Adults still fall into the same trap of copying what others think rather than thinking for themselves.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>If you are used to being told what to think, you will feel compromised by external thoughts, events, or individuals. In contrast, if you know how to think, you will have a greater sense of control over the situation. You can break free from your societal programming and think authentically.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image is-resized\"><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/d41chssnpqdne.cloudfront.net\/artist_bot\/77919\/task_task:cf936fab-dfdc-44ed-a269-8410dcd85838\/GbtTV-0x360.png?Expires=1698777189&amp;Signature=C~10MqeHC7B44YzMWL8Z6aM1WXUoARN5alR9ZXHjXWU9UzJDAtlP-b1A9dBShFJ3MMtXr3HjNI-7hRBXQEJwSwjlYzW6TXoeJ2lXIskWoFbQyj7eL88eiLdtaL~A9EvsdPZutlNFVHRydjS9qPgCbXWshRFHx8DxQ6wW4wS3P71EC4OS7ymsOPdqhzn1zZtRS6u64jx3aF2ILCgsED7AuQpsLwEB0Yix0p5bFr7k3FBTFYyGgDS~muPsKN1JGFNyntdSR~LPf~JROnYMU--q3maWJPsa0-KkbDLci3iFtTw7aVBzn0XARLM8euAbOeqznomjbs4s9gglCBkli-AO4g__&amp;Key-Pair-Id=K3USGZIKWMDCSX\" alt=\"\" style=\"width:502px;height:502px\"\/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">StoryShot #2: You Are a Product<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>We are all products. We are products that attach hope to the idea that we will someday choose our dream careers and relationships. However, no matter who we are, the world will exploit us. It does not matter if you are rich, highly intelligent, or talented. We are taught to be reliant on the world for our identity.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>From a young age, we are taught what to think rather than how to think. Therefore, instead of finding our own solutions to life\u2019s problems, we ask others for solutions. But you can learn to find your own solutions instead! If you learn how to think, you can better solve your problems. Instead of relying on Google or other people to answer your problems, you should make a habit of trying to solve them yourself.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">StoryShot #3: You Want to Be Special<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>The idea of being special excites nearly all of us. You must have imagined situations in which everybody around you would tell you that you&#8217;re amazing and treat you like you&#8217;re special.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Let&#8217;s say your colleagues or friends think that you are unique. Even your parents have told you that you are special.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>So does one become special when others say so?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>The straight answer is no. People aren&#8217;t qualified enough to decide whether someone is special or not.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>You cannot achieve specialness in life from a single event. Current events quickly become the past. To feel special, focus on garnering achievements, both personal and professional.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Gangwar says that specialness is something you earn. You have to ask yourself if you are unique or not by closing your eyes. Your &#8220;self&#8221; will offer you the correct answer. Ask yourself.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Specialness is the badge of realization you earn. Don&#8217;t seek the acceptance and approval of others for your specialness. Instead, you should feel special when you upgrade in life after mastering a skill. Earn specialness by showing yourself that you can solve problems without input. The key to doing this is working hard, staying disciplined, and remaining focused on your overarching goal.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">StoryShot #4: Knowledge and Intelligence Are Different<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>Society emphasizes the importance of knowing more. However, you should be placing less importance on this idea. There is a clear difference between knowledge and intelligence. Having knowledge is much less important than being able to think for yourself.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Technology is advancing at a rapid rate. Therefore, knowledgeable people will no longer be effective in a year or two. What they think now won\u2019t be relevant in the future. But those who have learned how to think will adapt to the evolution of technology.<\/p>\n\n\n\t\t<div class=\"ss-ctt-wrapper ss-ctt-style-4\" data-ss-post-id=\"58299\" data-nonce=\"4abf956e7b\">\n\n\t\t\t<a href=\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/intent\/tweet?text=%E2%80%9CKnowledge+can+be+borrowed%2C+but+you+can%E2%80%99t+borrow+understanding.+Once+you+reach+a+conclusion+derived+from+your+thinking%2C+it+is+called+a+realisation.+And+once+you+realise+something%2C+your+perception+changes+about+it+once+and+for+all.+And+that+perception+remains+locked+down+until+another+realisation+impacts+it%E2%80%94that%E2%80%99s+the+process+of+learning+and+growing.%E2%80%9D+%E2%80%93+Shwetabh+Gangwar&#038;url=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.getstoryshots.com%2Fde%2Fwp-json%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fposts%2F58299&#038;via=storyshots&#038;related=storyshots\" class=\"ss-ctt-tweet\" data-title=\"Click to Tweet\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\">\u201cKnowledge can be borrowed, but you can\u2019t borrow understanding. Once you reach a conclusion derived from your thinking, it is called a realisation. And once you realise something, your perception changes about it once and for all. And that perception remains locked down until another realisation impacts it\u2014that\u2019s the process of learning and growing.\u201d \u2013 Shwetabh Gangwar<\/a>\n\n\t\t\t<a href=\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/intent\/tweet?text=%E2%80%9CKnowledge+can+be+borrowed%2C+but+you+can%E2%80%99t+borrow+understanding.+Once+you+reach+a+conclusion+derived+from+your+thinking%2C+it+is+called+a+realisation.+And+once+you+realise+something%2C+your+perception+changes+about+it+once+and+for+all.+And+that+perception+remains+locked+down+until+another+realisation+impacts+it%E2%80%94that%E2%80%99s+the+process+of+learning+and+growing.%E2%80%9D+%E2%80%93+Shwetabh+Gangwar&#038;url=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.getstoryshots.com%2Fde%2Fwp-json%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fposts%2F58299&#038;via=storyshots&#038;related=storyshots\" class=\"ss-ctt-link\" data-title=\"Click to Tweet\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\">\n\t\t\t\t<span>Click to Tweet<\/span>\n\t\t\t\t<svg class=\"ss-svg-icon\" aria-hidden=\"true\" role=\"img\" focusable=\"false\" width=\"32\" height=\"32\" viewBox=\"0 0 24 24\"><path d=\"M18.244 2.25h3.308l-7.227 8.26 8.502 11.24H16.17l-5.214-6.817L4.99 21.75H1.68l7.73-8.835L1.254 2.25H8.08l4.713 6.231zm-1.161 17.52h1.833L7.084 4.126H5.117z\"><\/path><\/svg>\t\t\t<\/a>\n\n\t\t<\/div><!-- END .ss-ctt-wrapper -->\n\n\t\t\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">StoryShot #5: Rejections Are Normal<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>Rejection is a common experience and happens to everybody at some point in their lives. But when you experience rejection, you likely take it personally and act as if you&#8217;re the only one it has happened to.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Failures and rejections are the most important experiences for growth. We learn considerably more when things go wrong than when we are successful. However, if we do not know how to deal with rejections and failures, these failures will psychologically shape us.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Rejections will continue throughout your lifetime. You probably felt rejection strongest when you were young. It may have been that teacher you wanted to be noticed by, who somehow always moved past you as if you were non-existent.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Rejections are normal. Whenever you don&#8217;t achieve something you care about, you feel it reflects badly on you. You judge yourself and beat yourself up for it. You must break this chain of self-harm, knowing that failures, losses, and rejections are normal. Doing so directs all those negative emotions into something useful. You will feel less miserable once you&#8217;ve adopted the idea that &#8216;failures are normal.&#8217; This is the foundational principle in winning at life.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Although failures are typical, that doesn\u2019t mean they don\u2019t matter. But real winning means minimizing losses as much as you can. Start to see rejection as a way to improve yourself.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image is-resized\"><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/d41chssnpqdne.cloudfront.net\/artist_bot\/77919\/task_task:a9745db0-6ea0-40d1-a4f6-ae662faa0bd0\/DrBHC-0x180.png?Expires=1698777692&amp;Signature=BYD4E9jGbZ96qFDm13POaH5AdUFdu4WA1P2w4oI0VlyijGo879uJhliZRa7yPk0GSDhif1NgYPN-lnzxrz28XrNFGgg3TwMJYVHQbDIVFaHRt~om-mwfk8CwHKL6eJkYxr5iMxnBjdJePA7yG~g2S9NX5sezXLwjZIb4O3Bd3DY5RX3szRO-muOhaDEzMeELZPGEobCcA1BQoW~Fl2TVW~GYpM4MAphKkQSCvKNAgy62j7NGMRgXU-LsMHhz8UUt-NnKIRCMVXlwt7mTPC5BpUs3zAOdr~oB-zUiL-Fs-RTslpmQCYLHMaFOLdb-4xODhftZEBqGMi4PAHxveizx5g__&amp;Key-Pair-Id=K3USGZIKWMDCSX\" alt=\"\" style=\"width:468px;height:468px\"\/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">StoryShot #6: Understand that People Are Weird<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>People are weird. Weirdness is neither positive nor negative. Weirdness is a more accurate portrayal of humans. The characteristics we attribute to humans are mainly based on whether their actions are negative or positive. Therefore, humans are better described as \u2018weird\u2019.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Why is the idea that &#8216;people are weird&#8217; necessary for your growth? It is far better than having delusional perceptions. Your perception of something can create false expectations.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>To avoid creating such perceptions, keep the following in mind:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ol class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>Data. Knowledge comes from data. Remind yourself of this.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>First impressions are fake. Make a conscious effort to dissolve the images your brain makes of people. They don&#8217;t come from data but from how you perceive the planet. Instead of relying on first impressions for judgments, you should look at the actions of the person. Wait until you have gathered enough real-life data to form genuine judgments.&nbsp;<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>People are weird. Avoid making false assumptions, keeping this in mind.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>We sleep in a world of marketing. Anybody can sell you anything, especially when there are no data.<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">StoryShot #7: Forget Happiness and Choose Satisfaction<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>What you think you want in life is happiness. Behind most of your actions, decisions, and relationships is the pursuit of happiness. Unfortunately, you likely haven&#8217;t realized that happiness and satisfaction are not the same.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>The general answer to what makes you happy might be being nice to people, partying, and watching great TV shows and movies.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Self-satisfaction involves precise knowledge of what would make &#8220;you&#8221; happy. This begins with self-awareness. Knowledge of this kind gets locked away inside your brain when it&#8217;s not being applied.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>When others validate your worth, you feel happy. But you should not depend on others to tell you what you&#8217;re worth. Instead, you can judge your own value yourself. Your internal knowledge of your worth will bring you lasting satisfaction. This is better than the short-term feeling of happiness you get from others\u2019 praise.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Understand the difference between satisfaction and happiness. The search for self-satisfaction gives us peace of mind. Happiness is found in doing things we enjoy, like playing games with our loved ones. However, chasing satisfaction will provide you with this happiness while also bringing peace to your life.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">StoryShot #8: You Are a Nation<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>Start seeing yourself as a nation, not just a person.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Other people are other nations. For example, your parents, siblings, and loved ones are from neighboring countries. If you have a good relationship with them, that&#8217;s great; if not, you both suffer.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Your \u2018self\u2019 is the president of the nation. Your code of ethics and your rules become your constitution. The rules come from knowing what is causing harm to the nation. The code of ethics establishes the limits that you will never cross.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Self-regulation is the security force that enforces the rules and moral codes of the constitution. Self-esteem is your nation&#8217;s happiness index, which is felt when self-control is doing its job well. The desires, impulses, or tendencies in you that do harm are the terrorists.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>As the president of your nation, you also have an opposition party. The opposition party is your ego. Often your ego is wrong, but sometimes you have to work together with your ego. It wants you to be the best but doesn&#8217;t know what &#8220;the best&#8221; is, aside from being a word that makes you feel good. And because of this, the self must rule over the ego and cooperate on specific projects.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Hence, if you want recognition and acceptance of yourself, you have to start seeing yourself as a nation. You do not want another foreign nation to rule over your nation and thus become your nation&#8217;s authority. You should decide what is right and what is wrong for your country.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">StoryShot #9: Forget Your Heroes<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>Think about the people whose approval means everything to you. They hold a place of unquestioned authority in your mind. These are the people you don&#8217;t want to disappoint. You get excited when you see them. Each of their words is wisdom for you. Their actions are the right actions, and their achievements and knowledge make you want to follow them.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>You tend to believe without thinking that there are heroes in this world. You see people who do good as \u2018heroes.\u2019 And you call people your heroes when you believe they are capable and cool.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Movies, television shows, and the dramatic retelling of historical accounts have shaped our perspectives. Although you know that the idea of a \u2018hero\u2019 comes from fiction, you don&#8217;t realize that you also perpetuate that fiction.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>The idea of a hero and a villain is exciting but is too simple. Even a four-year-old understands it and feels trapped by it. A wise person once wrote, &#8220;Truth is seldom pure and never simple.&#8221; This idea is both.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>One of the worst things you can do to yourself is call someone your hero or role model.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>They fit into your childhood fantasy of being perfect the moment you do so. They stop being human to become something more prominent in your eyes. That&#8217;s dangerous because that&#8217;s what they are: humans. The concept of good and evil also prevents you from fully empowering yourself and accepting others.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>There are no heroes, no good people, no bad people; these are stupid and oversimplified perceptions. We are fully capable of performing acts of different kinds, ranging from ethical to evil.<\/p>\n\n\n\t\t<div class=\"ss-ctt-wrapper ss-ctt-style-4\" data-ss-post-id=\"58299\" data-nonce=\"4abf956e7b\">\n\n\t\t\t<a href=\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/intent\/tweet?text=%E2%80%9CWe+should+admire+heroic+actions%2C+encourage+them+and+celebrate+them%3B+we+should+aspire+towards+incorporating+them+into+our+lives.+But+we+should+leave+those+people+to+be+people%2C+and+to+act+like+people%E2%80%94that%E2%80%99s+a+great+thing+they+are+doing%2C+I+really+admire+it%E2%80%94and+spare+the+person+from+your+dumb+expectations+and+assumptions+regarding+things+you+have+no+data+about.%E2%80%9D+%E2%80%93+Shwetabh+Gangwar&#038;url=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.getstoryshots.com%2Fde%2Fwp-json%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fposts%2F58299&#038;via=storyshots&#038;related=storyshots\" class=\"ss-ctt-tweet\" data-title=\"Click to Tweet\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\">\u201cWe should admire heroic actions, encourage them and celebrate them; we should aspire towards incorporating them into our lives. But we should leave those people to be people, and to act like people\u2014that\u2019s a great thing they are doing, I really admire it\u2014and spare the person from your dumb expectations and assumptions regarding things you have no data about.\u201d \u2013 Shwetabh Gangwar<\/a>\n\n\t\t\t<a href=\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/intent\/tweet?text=%E2%80%9CWe+should+admire+heroic+actions%2C+encourage+them+and+celebrate+them%3B+we+should+aspire+towards+incorporating+them+into+our+lives.+But+we+should+leave+those+people+to+be+people%2C+and+to+act+like+people%E2%80%94that%E2%80%99s+a+great+thing+they+are+doing%2C+I+really+admire+it%E2%80%94and+spare+the+person+from+your+dumb+expectations+and+assumptions+regarding+things+you+have+no+data+about.%E2%80%9D+%E2%80%93+Shwetabh+Gangwar&#038;url=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.getstoryshots.com%2Fde%2Fwp-json%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fposts%2F58299&#038;via=storyshots&#038;related=storyshots\" class=\"ss-ctt-link\" data-title=\"Click to Tweet\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\">\n\t\t\t\t<span>Click to Tweet<\/span>\n\t\t\t\t<svg class=\"ss-svg-icon\" aria-hidden=\"true\" role=\"img\" focusable=\"false\" width=\"32\" height=\"32\" viewBox=\"0 0 24 24\"><path d=\"M18.244 2.25h3.308l-7.227 8.26 8.502 11.24H16.17l-5.214-6.817L4.99 21.75H1.68l7.73-8.835L1.254 2.25H8.08l4.713 6.231zm-1.161 17.52h1.833L7.084 4.126H5.117z\"><\/path><\/svg>\t\t\t<\/a>\n\n\t\t<\/div><!-- END .ss-ctt-wrapper -->\n\n\t\t\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">StoryShot #10: Admire, Don&#8217;t Follow<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>You are a fan of the extraordinary deeds and the talents of accomplished people. You are not a fan of <em>them<\/em> as people, or their lives. Learn to differentiate. What you have is a fascination with their lives. Without their accomplishments, you wouldn&#8217;t even have known their names. So why not admire them just for these acts?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Now comes the critical point: honesty is what separates blind following from admiration.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>The more honest the person you follow is, the less you want to emulate and become them. On the other hand, the more dishonest a person is, the more you want to be like them. Focus on actual data and honesty. Everything else is advertising and conjecture. Honesty removes the fake image of perfection from your eyes. Instead, you see ordinary, accessible people with flaws and struggles, just like you. That&#8217;s why you admire them, for their reality.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>So the more honest a person is, the more they are admired. Conversely, the less natural a person is, the more you follow them.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Every time we follow someone, we start idolizing them. We then begin defending their mistakes, as we think they are perfect. But nobody is perfect! Instead of following, we should admire a person&#8217;s ability and quality and try to emulate it.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">StoryShot #11: Relationships Should Be Partnerships<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>For many people, love is the idea that someone else will make you happier than you can be by yourself. This is a terrible idea. If both parties believe this, they will become codependent. If only one of them does, one becomes a servant of the other.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Suppose you are convinced that being with this person will make you happier. That makes you completely overlook the need for self-esteem, for this one person who supposedly makes you happy. Yet, self-esteem should be the root of your happiness.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>The purpose of relationships is to complement each other\u2019s lives. However, your happiness should never be dependent on a relationship. For example, you should never be seeking a relationship to make yourself happier. You and you alone should have the authority to make yourself happy or self-satisfied.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>You need to understand where your self-esteem comes from. That gives you respect for yourself.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Be clear about what a stable relationship is supposed to be:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>A relationship is not about giving someone authority over yourself.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>In a relationship, self-esteem should never be compromised or replaced by anything.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Self-control ensures continued respect from your partner. The self must always come first.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>A relationship should be seen as a partnership between two people.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p>Be realistic when looking for someone. Don&#8217;t chase the imagination. Set practical criteria based on your personal life goals. Take the time and care to get to know people.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>You must have the authority to make yourself happy and content. Your source of happiness should never be the other person. If you elect an external source as your beacon of happiness, you will be repeatedly let down. You can only control yourself, so it is more sustainable to develop internal happiness.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">StoryShot #12: Learn How to Think<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>How you think depends entirely on how you were taught to think as a child. If you were curious about something at a young age, there was a good chance you were given a packet of information on the subject. That would make you feel satisfied and stop thinking about it.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>If you want to be wise, you must accept that you don&#8217;t know anything. Much of what you&#8217;ve learned so far comes from someone telling you how to feel and what to think.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Some people can sense nonsense from a mile away; that should be your goal. If you&#8217;re watching the news or being sold something, you should be able to separate the data from the narrative. This doesn&#8217;t mean that you should solve all your problems at once or leave them until they get so big that you can&#8217;t focus on anything else in your life.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Keep in mind that wrong beliefs make you stupid; right ones set you free. The wrong ones are readily available, and you have to fight for the right ones.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Final Summary and Review<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p><em>The Rudest Book Ever<\/em> teaches you how to think for yourself and grow your independence. While you can admire some of the traits and accomplishments of others, you should not place them on a pedestal. While you can form strong partnerships with others, you need not become overly reliant on them. You can learn to challenge the beliefs that you have absorbed from others and instead know your own mind.<br><br>Let\u2019s go through some of those key points again.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ol class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>You are a product. You are expected to become an impressive and functional entity. You are expected to be able to choose jobs, careers, relationships, environments, and finances. The better the options, the better the product: that&#8217;s the simple law by which the world judges you. However, you can stop others from exploiting you by learning to think for yourself.<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n\n\n\n<ol start=\"2\" class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>Rejection is part of life. Everyone faces rejection at different points in their lives. Learning to deal with rejection is, therefore, very important.<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n\n\n\n<ol start=\"3\" class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>Nobody is special; nobody is stupid. Look at and trust the data, not the gossip. Don&#8217;t trust first impressions, and do not judge. We live in a world of marketing. Get to know a person based on actual data.<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n\n\n\n<ol start=\"4\" class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>Knowledge and intelligence are not the same. Having knowledge is much less important than knowing how to think.<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n\n\n\n<ol start=\"5\" class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>We have a habit of simplifying things, so we divide people into good and bad. One person is a hero, another a villain. But that&#8217;s not true; people are not all good and not all bad.<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n\n\n\n<ol start=\"6\" class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>If you want to become intelligent, you have to admit that you don&#8217;t know anything or that what you know is probably wrong. Much of what you&#8217;ve learned so far comes from someone telling you how to feel and what to think.<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n\n\n\n<ol start=\"7\" class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>Avoid blindly following beliefs and learn to question. Wrong beliefs make you stupid; right ones set you free.<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n\n\n\n<p>Which of these points did you find most helpful? Tag us on social media and let us know!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Rating<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>We rate The Rudest Book Ever 3.9\/5. 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To dive into the details and support Shwetabh Gangwar, order the <a href=\"https:\/\/geni.us\/educated-memoir-book\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">book<\/a> or get the audiobook <a href=\"https:\/\/geni.us\/tara-free-audiobook\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">for free<\/a>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>If you have feedback about this summary or would like to share what you have learned, comment below.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>New to StoryShots? 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