{"id":48520,"date":"2021-04-12T11:31:18","date_gmt":"2021-04-12T11:31:18","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.getstoryshots.com\/?p=48520"},"modified":"2024-10-26T09:55:32","modified_gmt":"2024-10-26T09:55:32","slug":"attached-summary","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.getstoryshots.com\/ko\/books\/attached-summary\/","title":{"rendered":"\ucca8\ubd80\ub41c \uc694\uc57d \ubc0f \uc778\ud3ec\uadf8\ub798\ud53d | \uc544\ubbf8\ub974 \ub808\ube48\uacfc \ub808\uc774\uccbc \ud5ec\ub7ec"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"are-you-anxious-avoidant-or-secure-how-the-science-of-adult-attachment-can-help-you-find-and-keep-love\">Are you Anxious, Avoidant or Secure? How the science of adult attachment can help you find &#8211; and keep &#8211; love<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p><br>This Attached summary reveals how understanding your attachment style can transform your love life\u2014could this be the key to unlocking your happiest relationship yet? \ud83d\udc96\ud83d\udd10<\/p>\n\n\n\n<iframe frameborder=\"0\" height=\"200\" scrolling=\"no\" src=\"https:\/\/playlist.megaphone.fm?e=PARSIDA9741515910&amp;light=true\" width=\"100%\"><\/iframe>\n\n\n\n<p>Life gets busy. Has <a href=\"https:\/\/geni.us\/attached-audiobook\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Attached<\/a> been gathering dust on your bookshelf? Instead, pick up the key ideas now.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Don\u2019t you already have the book? We\u2019re scratching the surface here. To learn the juicy details and support the author, order the <a href=\"https:\/\/geni.us\/attached-book\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">book<\/a> or get the audiobook <a href=\"https:\/\/geni.us\/attached-audiobook\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">for free<\/a>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"amir-levine-s-perspective\">Amir Levine&#8217;s Perspective<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-drop-cap\"><a href=\"https:\/\/geni.us\/amir-levine\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Amir Levine<\/a> is an Assistant Professor in the Department of Psychiatry in the Division of Child and Adolescent Psychiatry at Columbia University. His mother was a popular science editor who valued creativity and self-motivation. She allowed Amir to stay home from school whenever he wanted and study what interested him. This sparked a passion for learning. After his compulsory army service, Amir enrolled in medical school at Hebrew University in Jerusalem. Here he received many awards. He is now at Columbia University as a Principal Investigator. Levine works together with Nobel Prize Laureate Dr. Eric Kandel on a National Institute of Health sponsored research project. He also has a private practice in Manhattan.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"introduction-to-attached\">Introduction to Attached<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/geni.us\/attached-audiobook\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Attached<\/a> investigates the science of love. Understanding your attachment style and your potential partner\u2019s attachment style is key to finding and sustaining love. We have known about attachment styles since the 1950s, but he was investigating them within children. The reality is these attachment styles impact our future relationships too. This book has been translated into 11 languages.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Here are the main points of Attached:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"storyshot-1-attachment-styles-will-help-you-understand-your-romantic-relationships\">StoryShot #1: Attachment Styles Will Help You Understand Your Romantic Relationships<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>Partners will often have different reactions to being away from their loved ones. While one partner may be distressed, the other may be unaffected by time apart. These different responses are related to individual attachment styles. The authors describe attachment as the bond between two people which generally lasts for long periods. The most common attachment often spoken about is the mother-child bond. There\u2019s lots of research suggesting that the attachment style we form with our mother has a big impact on our future relationships. The authors use a study to show this. Researchers wanted to investigate the healing potential of strong attachment. So, they placed female participants in stressful situations but let half of the participants hold their partner\u2019s hand. The results showed that the hypothalamus, the brain area that deals with emotional pressure, was less active in holding their partner\u2019s hand. This effect only seems to be the case if you have a strong and secure attachment with your partner. For example, other research has found that spending time with a partner from an unhappy relationship can lead to raised blood pressure and feelings of discomfort.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"storyshot-2-bowlby-s-research-is-the-foundation-of-attachment-styles\">StoryShot #2: Bowlby\u2019s Research Is the Foundation of Attachment Styles<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>The author explains that there are three types of attachment. These are avoidant, anxious and secure. Each indicates a different way of understanding intimacy and approaching communication within a relationship. These three attachment styles were developed from research by a psychologist called John Bowlby. He theorized that children have an instinctual need for motherly affection. This theory was based on Monkeys choosing a comforter over food and another psychologist finding large differences between children in how they responded to being separated from their parents for a short period of time.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"storyshot-3-there-are-three-types-of-attachment\">StoryShot #3: There Are Three Types of Attachment<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>Here is a basic outline of each of the attachment styles before we delve deeper into each of them:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ol class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>Secure &#8211; Invite intimacy without anxiety<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Anxious &#8211; Worry about relationships and intimacy because they are worried they will lose their partner<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Avoidant &#8211; Privately considers an intimate attachment to entail a loss of independence. So, they avoid these attachments.<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n\n\n\n<p>Levine explains that none of these attachment styles are good or bad. They are just different. Most people will be born with these attachment styles. That said, there is a 25% chance that your attachment style can change every four years.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"storyshot-4-anxious-attachment\">StoryShot #4: Anxious Attachment<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>All humans have a strong need for attachment. That said, we do differ in how we think relationships should function. Individuals who are anxiously attached will often be preoccupied with worrying about their relationship. They are worried that their partner does not love them enough. An example of this would be worrying if a partner doesn\u2019t reply quickly to your message.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Anxious attachment styles mean individuals often need access to their partner and take their partner\u2019s behavior very personally. Those who are anxiously attached are best suited to relationships with those who are securely attached. This is because they will provide comfort and intimacy. If you believe you have an anxious attachment style, you should try to avoid jumping to conclusions. Dating around will help push you to avoid an expectation of reassurance from one partner.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"storyshot-5-avoidant-attachment\">StoryShot #5: Avoidant Attachment<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>Individuals who have an avoidant attachment style will often feel trapped by relationships. They will perceive their partners as too needy and won\u2019t understand people\u2019s obsessions with dependence on one person. These individuals avoid relationships as they feel this will lead to a loss of independence. The authors highlight that there is an important difference between independence and self-reliance. Self-reliance means you cannot let go of what they perceive as independence. This leads to a broken relationship and unhappiness. Independence is the knowledge that you can excel by yourself, but you don\u2019t have to spend life alone. Understanding this difference is key to happiness for those who are avoidantly attached.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>If they choose to be in a relationship, they will likely struggle to recognize others\u2019 feelings. So, they struggle to maintain these relationships. They also use distancing strategies like keeping secrets and avoiding physical closeness. One reason for these behaviors is that they could have developed as a defense mechanism due to childhood neglect.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>The characteristics of those who are avoidantly attached may seem like they don\u2019t want to form any attachments. The reality is that they still have the same need, but they just express this need differently. They do not settle for less than their perfect partner, which means relationships can also break down when they notice minor problems with a partner.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>The authors recommend those who have this attachment style try to view their partners more positively. The best way to do this is to first look at themselves as the source of conflict. Viewing problems from their partner\u2019s perspective will help people who have avoidant attachments from nit-picking problems with their partner.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"storyshot-6-secure-attachment\">StoryShot #6: Secure Attachment<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>The final attachment style is the secure attachment style. People with this attachment style can effectively communicate their expectations and needs without protest behaviors. An example of a protest behavior would be calling a partner multiple times when they don\u2019t respond immediately. Securely attached individuals are also forgiving, reliable and responsive to a partner\u2019s needs. They are able to read between the lines, so that they can understand their partner\u2019s needs without too much concern (as an anxious person would) or being indifferent (like an avoidant person). The reality is, being in a relationship with a secure partner is the best predictor for a happy and successful relationship.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Secure couples rely on each other for support and are not afraid of intimacy. Their willingness to be intimate is because they are not afraid that these behaviors will take away their independence.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"storyshot-7-mismatched-attachment-styles\">StoryShot #7: Mismatched Attachment Styles<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>Understanding your partner\u2019s style can help you understand areas where your styles might clash. The authors explain that the most mismatched pair would be an anxious and an avoidant. These individuals would be unable to satisfy each other\u2019s intimacy needs. This type of relationship would be characterized by occasional closeness followed by withdrawal from the avoidant partner. This will then leave the anxious partner feeling betrayed and dissatisfied. That said, these attachment styles can still work together. The relationship problems can be solved through effective communication. Specifically, the anxious partner should express emotional needs. The avoidant partner should express a need for space. When a couple continues to express needs and respond to one another\u2019s bids for intimacy, it becomes easier for one to take some time alone without hurting the other.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"storyshot-8-the-dependency-myth\">StoryShot #8: The Dependency Myth<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>There is a myth that coddling your child will lead to them becoming overly-dependent on you as they grow up. Specifically, parents worry that coddling their child will mean the child never learns to self-soothe. So, they develop future attachment issues.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>The reality is that dependency is actually a paradox. If you place a child in a room with their mother, they will generally feel safe. This safety is based on a dependency on their parents. This dependency is actually what allows the child to explore independently. This argument is supported by what happens when you remove the mother from the room. When this happens the child will often cry and will avoid exploring the room. The reason for this is that they do not have a secure base to depend on, to then allow them to explore independently.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>The importance of dependency translates to adulthood. The author describes how studies show that holding the hand of a partner leads to a much reduced stress response. Specifically, women were placed in stressful situations and their brain activity in the hypothalamus was measured. This is the part of the brain associated with stress. The researchers found a significant reduction in hypothalamus activation while holding their partner\u2019s hand when compared to holding a stranger\u2019s hand. This shows that their dependency on their partner allowed them to deal with stressful situations and means we rely on others for our own wellbeing. This dependency leads to couples becoming a single physiological unit, whereby they influence their partner\u2019s blood pressure, heart rate, breathing and hormones. The mirroring shown by couples shows the importance of dependency in relationships.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"storyshot-9-the-two-types-of-information\">StoryShot #9: The Two Types of Information<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>We just spoke about the importance of communication when you have mismatched attachment styles. Effective communication requires you to be open about your emotional needs and demonstrate a desire to know and understand your partner\u2019s attachment needs.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>The authors break communication down into two parts. There is content information and relational information. Content information is the stuff that is actually said. Relational information is the signaling that people offer through their tone, body language and other cues. Miscommunication can occur if either of these forms of communication are misinterpreted. This can lead to two partners not sharing the same interpretation of a context.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"storyshot-10-sharing-intimate-information-is-crucial-in-relationships\">StoryShot #10: Sharing Intimate Information Is Crucial in Relationships<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>The key to preventing misinterpretation is sharing intimate information honestly. Doing so can also increase affection and intimacy within the relationship. This reciprocal communication is what researchers describe as what makes a relationship. Levine believes that most disagreements within relationships are not arguments about big mistakes or small inconveniences. Instead, most problems are based on conflicting intimacy needs.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>The author uses the example of a dog to explain how your attachment style is more important than the details. Everyone loves their dog despite them pooping constantly, waking you up at night and demanding constant attention. The reason people still love their dog despite all these complications is that they have a secure attachment style and are willing to put the issues behind them.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"storyshot-11-most-communication-is-nonverbal\">StoryShot #11: Most Communication Is Nonverbal<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>Most communication is nonverbal rather than verbal. So, remember that your body language has an impact on the way your partner will perceive your information. Open body language will invite sharing between the two of you. Examples of open body language would be leaning into the conversation or making sure your arms aren\u2019t crossed.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"storyshot-12-how-to-disagree-in-the-right-way\">StoryShot #12: How to Disagree In the Right Way<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>For a relationship to work, it\u2019s not so important how much you disagree with your partner, but how you disagree. One thing to keep in mind is that you shouldn\u2019t generalize while arguing. So, when you have a disagreement you should only talk about that topic of disagreement. Do not bring previous disagreements or behaviors into the conversation. You should also keep your partner\u2019s wellbeing in mind at all times. You can have an idea of what you want, but you should then also consider your partner\u2019s wellbeing. Considering both viewpoints will allow you to effectively compromise, making decisions that benefit you both. Finally, try to remember that your partner cannot read your mind. Be honest about how you are feeling so that they can fully understand your experiences.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"final-summary-and-review-of-attached\">Attached Final Summary and Review<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p><em>Attached <\/em>reinforces the idea that we are all unique. We all have unique attachment styles that are based on our upbringings and biology. That said, all of us will fall under the broad categories of having a secure, anxious or avoidant attachment style. Suppose our partner or we have an anxious or avoidant attachment style. In that case, we must use communication to strengthen the relationship\u2019s connection. Understanding your and your partner\u2019s attachment styles will help you understand how you can make your relationship last.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Rating<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>We rate Attached 4.2\/5. 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To dive into the details and support Amir Levine, order the <a href=\"https:\/\/geni.us\/attached-book\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">book<\/a> or get the audiobook <a href=\"https:\/\/geni.us\/attached-audiobook\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">for free<\/a>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Did you like the lessons you learned here? Comment below or share to show you care.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>New to StoryShots? Get the PDF, free audio and animated versions of this analysis and summary of Attached and hundreds of other bestselling nonfiction books in our<a href=\"https:\/\/go.getstoryshots.com\/free\"> free top-ranking app.<\/a> It\u2019s been featured by Apple, The Guardian, The UN, and Google as one of the world\u2019s best reading and learning apps.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"related-book-summaries-and-reviews\">Related Book Summaries<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li><a href=\"https:\/\/www.getstoryshots.com\/books\/the-5-love-languages-summary\">The 5 Love Languages<\/a> by Gary Chapman<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><a href=\"https:\/\/www.getstoryshots.com\/books\/modern-romance-summary\">Modern Romance<\/a> by Aziz Ansari and Eric Klinenberg<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><a href=\"https:\/\/www.getstoryshots.com\/books\/mating-in-captivity-summary\">Mating in Captivity<\/a> by Esther Perel<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><a href=\"https:\/\/www.getstoryshots.com\/books\/emotional-intelligence-summary\">Emotional Intelligence<\/a> by Daniel Goleman<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><a href=\"https:\/\/www.getstoryshots.com\/books\/get-the-guy-summary\/\" data-type=\"post\" data-id=\"57688\">Get The Guy<\/a> by Matthew Hussey<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><a href=\"https:\/\/www.getstoryshots.com\/books\/why-men-love-bitches-summary\/\" data-type=\"post\" data-id=\"2775\">Why Men Love B*ches<\/a><\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><a href=\"https:\/\/www.getstoryshots.com\/books\/the-way-of-the-superior-man-summary\">The Way of the Superior Man<\/a> by David Deida<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><a href=\"https:\/\/www.getstoryshots.com\/books\/men-are-from-mars-women-are-from-venus-summary\">Men Are from Mars, Women Are from Venus<\/a> by John Gray<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><a href=\"https:\/\/www.getstoryshots.com\/books\/the-seven-principles-for-making-marriage-work-summary\">The Seven Principles for Making Marriage Work<\/a> by John Gottman and Nan Silver<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><a href=\"https:\/\/www.getstoryshots.com\/books\/emotional-intelligence-20-summary\">Emotional Intelligence 2.0<\/a> by Jean Greaves and Travis Bradberry<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><a href=\"https:\/\/www.getstoryshots.com\/books\/the-art-of-seduction-summary\">The Art of Seduction<\/a>&nbsp;by Robert Greene<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n<div id=\"rank-math-faq\" class=\"rank-math-block\">\n<div class=\"rank-math-list \">\n<div id=\"faq-question-1723116997840\" class=\"rank-math-list-item\">\n<h3 class=\"rank-math-question \">What is the book Attached about?<\/h3>\n<div class=\"rank-math-answer \">\n\n<p>Attached is a book by Amir Levine that explores the science behind adult attachment styles and how they influence our relationships.<\/p>\n\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div id=\"faq-question-1723116997840\" class=\"rank-math-list-item\">\n<h3 class=\"rank-math-question \">What are the main ideas discussed in Attached?<\/h3>\n<div class=\"rank-math-answer \">\n\n<p>The main ideas in Attached revolve around understanding different attachment styles, how they impact our romantic relationships, and practical advice for building healthier and more secure connections.<\/p>\n\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div id=\"faq-question-1723116997840\" class=\"rank-math-list-item\">\n<h3 class=\"rank-math-question \">Can you provide a summary of Attached?<\/h3>\n<div class=\"rank-math-answer \">\n\n<p>Attached provides insight into the three main attachment styles (anxious, avoidant, and secure), offers examples of how they manifest in relationships, and offers guidance on creating more satisfying and fulfilling romantic connections.<\/p>\n\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div id=\"faq-question-1723116997840\" class=\"rank-math-list-item\">\n<h3 class=\"rank-math-question \">How does Attached help in understanding attachment styles?<\/h3>\n<div class=\"rank-math-answer \">\n\n<p>Attached helps readers understand their own attachment style and recognize the attachment styles of their partners. This knowledge can lead to increased empathy, improved communication, and better relationship dynamics.<\/p>\n\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div id=\"faq-question-1723116997840\" class=\"rank-math-list-item\">\n<h3 class=\"rank-math-question \">Does Attached provide practical advice for improving relationships?<\/h3>\n<div class=\"rank-math-answer \">\n\n<p>Yes, Attached offers practical strategies for individuals with different attachment styles to form stronger and healthier relationships. It provides tools to address common relationship challenges and foster greater emotional connection.<\/p>\n\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div id=\"faq-question-1723116997840\" class=\"rank-math-list-item\">\n<h3 class=\"rank-math-question \">What kind of audience is Attached suitable for?<\/h3>\n<div class=\"rank-math-answer \">\n\n<p>Attached is suitable for a general audience interested in psychology, self-improvement, and understanding relationship dynamics. It caters to both individuals seeking to enhance their own relationships and those curious about attachment theory.<\/p>\n\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div id=\"faq-question-1723116997840\" class=\"rank-math-list-item\">\n<h3 class=\"rank-math-question \">How can reading Attached benefit individuals struggling in their relationships?<\/h3>\n<div class=\"rank-math-answer \">\n\n<p>Reading Attached can benefit individuals struggling in their relationships by providing insights into their own attachment style and offering guidance on how to navigate common relationship pitfalls. It empowers individuals to create more satisfying and fulfilling connections.<\/p>\n\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div id=\"faq-question-1723116997840\" class=\"rank-math-list-item\">\n<h3 class=\"rank-math-question \">Are there any case studies or real-life examples in Attached?<\/h3>\n<div class=\"rank-math-answer \">\n\n<p>Yes, Attached includes case studies and real-life examples to illustrate the different attachment styles and their effects on relationships. These stories help readers relate to the concepts and see their application in real-world scenarios.<\/p>\n\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div id=\"faq-question-1723116997840\" class=\"rank-math-list-item\">\n<h3 class=\"rank-math-question \">Does Attached address the topic of developing secure attachment in adult relationships?<\/h3>\n<div class=\"rank-math-answer \">\n\n<p>Yes, Attached emphasizes the importance of developing secure attachment in adult relationships. It provides strategies and techniques for fostering trust, intimacy, and security within a romantic partnership.<\/p>\n\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div id=\"faq-question-1723116997840\" class=\"rank-math-list-item\">\n<h3 class=\"rank-math-question \">Can Attached be useful for professionals in the field of psychology or therapy?<\/h3>\n<div class=\"rank-math-answer \">\n\n<p>Absolutely! Attached can be a valuable resource for professionals in psychology and therapy. 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