{"id":89065,"date":"2023-02-01T19:01:00","date_gmt":"2023-02-01T19:01:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.getstoryshots.com\/?p=89065"},"modified":"2024-08-21T07:39:15","modified_gmt":"2024-08-21T07:39:15","slug":"the-unplugged-alpha-summary","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.getstoryshots.com\/ko\/books\/the-unplugged-alpha-summary\/","title":{"rendered":"Richard Cooper\uc758 \uc5b8\ud50c\ub7ec\uadf8\ub4dc \uc54c\ud30c \uc694\uc57d \ubc0f \ub9ac\ubdf0"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">The No Bullsh*t Guide To Winning With Women &amp; Life<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p><\/p>\n\n\n<div id=\"elevenlabs-audionative-widget\" data-height=\"90\" data-width=\"100%\" data-frameborder=\"no\" data-scrolling=\"no\" data-publicuserid=\"26579032a64f96291b9b95bd16658852e05d6d9d51ce8b4f130f1ee0cbf2eae4\" data-playerurl=\"https:\/\/elevenlabs.io\/player\/index.html\" >Loading the <a href=\"https:\/\/elevenlabs.io\/text-to-speech\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"><\/a> Audio Native Player<\/div><script src=\"https:\/\/elevenlabs.io\/player\/audioNativeHelper.js\" type=\"text\/javascript\"><\/script>\n\n\n\n<p>Life gets busy. Has <a href=\"https:\/\/geni.us\/the-unplugged-alpha-au\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"><em>The Unplugged Alpha<\/em><\/a> been on your reading list? Learn the key insights now.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>We\u2019re scratching the surface here. If you don\u2019t already have Richard Cooper\u2019s popular book on relationships and self-help,<a href=\"https:\/\/geni.us\/The-unplugged-alpha\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"> order it here<\/a> or <a href=\"https:\/\/geni.us\/the-unplugged-alpha-au\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">get the audiobook for free<\/a> to learn the juicy details.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Introduction<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>Are you looking for advice on how to become an alpha male? <a href=\"https:\/\/geni.us\/the-unplugged-alpha-au\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"><em>The Unplugged Alpha<\/em><\/a> by Richard Cooper provides insight into the minds of alpha males, their attitudes and behaviors, and how to become one yourself.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>This book is dedicated to all the men that have never had a strong, masculine male role model. Rich talks about his experiences before unplugging from the matrix, how he contemplated suicide one day, and how he took the bold steps of attending a men&#8217;s retreat that helped him unplug from the matrix and kick-start his path to success.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">About Richard Cooper<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>Richard Cooper is an author and speaker who specializes in helping men improve their relationships with women and their overall lives. He has been featured on various television and radio programs, and his work has been praised by publications such as The New York Times. He is also the founder of the Better Man Project, a platform that aids men in improving their relationships with women and finding success in life.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Storyshot #1: What is an Unplugged Alpha?<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>An Unplugged Alpha is an independent and emotionally intelligent man who lives a life of purpose and is not dependent on external validation from others or from society.<\/p>\n\n\n\t\t<div class=\"ss-ctt-wrapper ss-ctt-style-4\" data-ss-post-id=\"89065\" data-nonce=\"7d20d414f8\">\n\n\t\t\t<a href=\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/intent\/tweet?text=%E2%80%9CYour+highest+%E2%80%9CReturn+on+Investment%E2%80%9D+%28or+ROI%29+in+life+will+always+be+that+of+being+a+man+of+vision%2C+purpose%2C+and+who+is+always+chasing+excellence.%E2%80%9D+-+Richard+Cooper&#038;url=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.getstoryshots.com%2Fko%2Fwp-json%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fposts%2F89065&#038;via=storyshots&#038;related=storyshots\" class=\"ss-ctt-tweet\" data-title=\"Click to Tweet\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\">\u201cYour highest \u201cReturn on Investment\u201d (or ROI) in life will always be that of being a man of vision, purpose, and who is always chasing excellence.\u201d &#8211; Richard Cooper<\/a>\n\n\t\t\t<a href=\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/intent\/tweet?text=%E2%80%9CYour+highest+%E2%80%9CReturn+on+Investment%E2%80%9D+%28or+ROI%29+in+life+will+always+be+that+of+being+a+man+of+vision%2C+purpose%2C+and+who+is+always+chasing+excellence.%E2%80%9D+-+Richard+Cooper&#038;url=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.getstoryshots.com%2Fko%2Fwp-json%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fposts%2F89065&#038;via=storyshots&#038;related=storyshots\" class=\"ss-ctt-link\" data-title=\"Click to Tweet\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\">\n\t\t\t\t<span>Click to Tweet<\/span>\n\t\t\t\t<svg class=\"ss-svg-icon\" aria-hidden=\"true\" role=\"img\" focusable=\"false\" width=\"32\" height=\"32\" viewBox=\"0 0 24 24\"><path d=\"M18.244 2.25h3.308l-7.227 8.26 8.502 11.24H16.17l-5.214-6.817L4.99 21.75H1.68l7.73-8.835L1.254 2.25H8.08l4.713 6.231zm-1.161 17.52h1.833L7.084 4.126H5.117z\"><\/path><\/svg>\t\t\t<\/a>\n\n\t\t<\/div><!-- END .ss-ctt-wrapper -->\n\n\t\t\n\n\n<p>The Unplugged Alpha has no need for approval or validation from anyone else, and he seeks to live his life according to his own personal beliefs and standards. He does not conform to the norms of society or engage in behaviors that are socially acceptable. Instead, he follows his own path, guided by a deep sense of integrity.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>The Unplugged Alpha can maintain emotional control and make decisions independently. Besides taking risks and challenging himself, he is also open to learning from others and acquiring new ideas. He has confidence in himself and his abilities, but he also recognizes that he still has a lot to learn and explore.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>The Unplugged Alpha is not afraid to be vulnerable and share his feelings with others. He respects the feelings of others, even if they differ from his own. He also knows how to communicate effectively, making sure his message gets across clearly and respectfully.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">StoryShot #2: How to Become an Unplugged Alpha<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>The first step to becoming an Unplugged Alpha is to redefine your own masculinity. You must be honest with yourself about what traits you possess and be willing to make changes to become the best version of yourself. This means you should embrace vulnerability, focus on developing genuine relationships, and prioritize personal development. You must also have a clear understanding of what you want and be willing to take risks in order to achieve it.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>You will then need to develop the skills necessary to become an Unplugged Alpha. In addition to mastering the art of conversation, you need to be able to read body language and nonverbal cues, understand the dynamics between men and women, and develop effective communication skills. Also, you ought to maintain self-control and restraint, be aware of your emotions, and not be afraid to express yourself.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>You must also learn to navigate the world around you as an Unplugged Alpha. This includes learning how to set boundaries and limits with others, and making sure your actions are in line with your values. No matter what obstacles you may face, you must remain true to your own beliefs.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\t\t<div class=\"ss-ctt-wrapper ss-ctt-style-4\" data-ss-post-id=\"89065\" data-nonce=\"7d20d414f8\">\n\n\t\t\t<a href=\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/intent\/tweet?text=%E2%80%9CAn+alpha+does+as+he+pleases%2C+he+possesses+the+traits+of%3A+Strength%2C+courage%2C+mastery%2C+and+honor.+Men+want+to+be+him%3B+women+want+to+be+with+him.+When+women+are+with+him%2C+they+will+enthusiastically+show+it.%E2%80%9D+-+Richard+Cooper&#038;url=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.getstoryshots.com%2Fko%2Fwp-json%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fposts%2F89065&#038;via=storyshots&#038;related=storyshots\" class=\"ss-ctt-tweet\" data-title=\"Click to Tweet\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\">\u201cAn alpha does as he pleases, he possesses the traits of: Strength, courage, mastery, and honor. Men want to be him; women want to be with him. When women are with him, they will enthusiastically show it.\u201d &#8211; Richard Cooper<\/a>\n\n\t\t\t<a href=\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/intent\/tweet?text=%E2%80%9CAn+alpha+does+as+he+pleases%2C+he+possesses+the+traits+of%3A+Strength%2C+courage%2C+mastery%2C+and+honor.+Men+want+to+be+him%3B+women+want+to+be+with+him.+When+women+are+with+him%2C+they+will+enthusiastically+show+it.%E2%80%9D+-+Richard+Cooper&#038;url=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.getstoryshots.com%2Fko%2Fwp-json%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fposts%2F89065&#038;via=storyshots&#038;related=storyshots\" class=\"ss-ctt-link\" data-title=\"Click to Tweet\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\">\n\t\t\t\t<span>Click to Tweet<\/span>\n\t\t\t\t<svg class=\"ss-svg-icon\" aria-hidden=\"true\" role=\"img\" focusable=\"false\" width=\"32\" height=\"32\" viewBox=\"0 0 24 24\"><path d=\"M18.244 2.25h3.308l-7.227 8.26 8.502 11.24H16.17l-5.214-6.817L4.99 21.75H1.68l7.73-8.835L1.254 2.25H8.08l4.713 6.231zm-1.161 17.52h1.833L7.084 4.126H5.117z\"><\/path><\/svg>\t\t\t<\/a>\n\n\t\t<\/div><!-- END .ss-ctt-wrapper -->\n\n\t\t\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">StoryShot #3: Understanding Women&#8217;s Rules<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>Women have their own set of rules when it comes to dating and relationships. It is critical for men to understand these rules and be aware of how women are likely to break them.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>When a woman truly desires you, she will show up on time, call you, text you, follow you closely on social media, buy you random gifts, make your meals, and initiate sex with you unprovoked. You can&#8217;t manufacture being attractive. You have to be natural. Likewise, you have to be a man who manages confidence, competence, and strength. You can, however, fix yourself if you are fat, broke, and socially insignificant.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><br>Breaking the Rules<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>Women often break these rules:&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ol class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>Keep your cool: Women often make it known that they are the ones in control. This means that they may not always express their emotions in a rational or reasonable way, or they may overreact to things.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Don&#8217;t take too long to decide: Women may take longer than necessary to decide, especially if they think it will affect their power or control in a relationship.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Don&#8217;t give away all your secrets: Women may be tempted to reveal personal information about themselves or the relationship that should be kept private. This can be damaging for both parties.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Don&#8217;t be too eager: Women may become overly eager when it comes to commitment, and this could end up pushing away potential partners.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Don&#8217;t play games: Women may try to manipulate people or situations by playing mind games or being manipulative. This type of behavior is generally not appreciated.<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n\n\n\n<p>Understanding how women might break these rules is key for men when it comes to understanding the primary female social order. By being aware of these potential pitfalls, men can better prepare themselves for successful relationships with women.<\/p>\n\n\n\t\t<div class=\"ss-ctt-wrapper ss-ctt-style-4\" data-ss-post-id=\"89065\" data-nonce=\"7d20d414f8\">\n\n\t\t\t<a href=\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/intent\/tweet?text=%E2%80%9CA+woman+will+break+all+her+rules+if+she+views+you+as+an+alpha.+Every.+Single.+Time.%E2%80%9D+-+Richard+Cooper&#038;url=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.getstoryshots.com%2Fko%2Fwp-json%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fposts%2F89065&#038;via=storyshots&#038;related=storyshots\" class=\"ss-ctt-tweet\" data-title=\"Click to Tweet\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\">\u201cA woman will break all her rules if she views you as an alpha. Every. Single. Time.\u201d &#8211; Richard Cooper<\/a>\n\n\t\t\t<a href=\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/intent\/tweet?text=%E2%80%9CA+woman+will+break+all+her+rules+if+she+views+you+as+an+alpha.+Every.+Single.+Time.%E2%80%9D+-+Richard+Cooper&#038;url=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.getstoryshots.com%2Fko%2Fwp-json%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fposts%2F89065&#038;via=storyshots&#038;related=storyshots\" class=\"ss-ctt-link\" data-title=\"Click to Tweet\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\">\n\t\t\t\t<span>Click to Tweet<\/span>\n\t\t\t\t<svg class=\"ss-svg-icon\" aria-hidden=\"true\" role=\"img\" focusable=\"false\" width=\"32\" height=\"32\" viewBox=\"0 0 24 24\"><path d=\"M18.244 2.25h3.308l-7.227 8.26 8.502 11.24H16.17l-5.214-6.817L4.99 21.75H1.68l7.73-8.835L1.254 2.25H8.08l4.713 6.231zm-1.161 17.52h1.833L7.084 4.126H5.117z\"><\/path><\/svg>\t\t\t<\/a>\n\n\t\t<\/div><!-- END .ss-ctt-wrapper -->\n\n\t\t\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">StoryShot #4: The Importance of Genuine Burning Desire in Relationships<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>To truly succeed in relationships, you must have a passionate drive to look beyond the ordinary and explore new and exciting possibilities with your partner.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Genuine burning desire is the fire that keeps a relationship alive. Without it, relationships tend to become mundane and eventually break apart. Having a genuine burning desire allows you to explore new possibilities within your relationship, as well as keep your partner\u2019s attention.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Settling for less in relationships or desires can lead to resentment and dissatisfaction in the long term. Once you have experienced genuine attraction and desire from a partner, it will become easier to recognize and avoid situations where it is lacking.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Dealing with Negative Influences<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>Take your time to ensure that you are bringing the right people into your personal life. This means paying attention to their actions, and not just their words.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>However, if you find that someone is not suitable or is not living up to their promises, it is important to act quickly and remove them. This is because allowing negative or unproductive people to continue in their roles can have a detrimental effect on the overall performance of personal relationships. Have a plan in place and execute it effectively and efficiently.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Building a Good Game<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>Having wealth, status, and the ability to attract and interact with women are all vital elements of being an Unplugged Alpha. The ability to have wealth allows you to have a wider range of options in life. This allows you to be able to let people or opportunities that don&#8217;t hold value for you to go.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>While being extroverted is not necessary, it is important to exude genuine confidence in order to attract women. Being playful, teasing, and authentic around women, and only rewarding them with attention when they have earned it, is key to building a good game.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">StoryShot #5: Protecting Yourself in a Divorce<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>Divorce reveals a woman&#8217;s true character. Don&#8217;t be surprised if she makes up all kinds of crazy stories to get family law, and even the police, to do her dirty work for her.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>When you divorce her, be prepared for her to weaponize your kids. She will do whatever she can to turn them against you and alienate them from you during the divorce. You can be sure that this will test your resolve and frame it to the absolute limit. Alienation from their children is one of the biggest reasons why so many men commit suicide, or at least contemplate it.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>It is important to consult a divorce lawyer before getting married, and do not be guilt-tripped or shamed by your LTR for doing so (that is a major red flag in and of itself). Find out how divorce works in your area by investing in an hour-long consultation with a divorce lawyer. Imagine if a skydiving instructor told you that your parachute only had a 50% chance of opening or less. Would you still want to jump out of that plane if you knew that you would also immediately lose legal access to everything you had worked for (including access to your children) the minute you jumped?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">StoryShot #6: 20 Red Flags Alpha Males Should Avoid When Dating<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>As an alpha male, if any red flags appear in a woman, limit your interaction to a FWB relationship or pass them on completely. Look for women who will add value to your life, and don&#8217;t let problem women get in the way of your mission.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Red Flag #1: Daddy Issues<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>Listen to her story intently and ask probing questions to help identify these signs, including an acrimonious relationship with her father, an absent or disinterested father, or a single mother trying to optimize their hypergamy.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>A woman with Daddy issues will likely not value a masculine, virtuous alpha man and may have conflicting feelings about masculinity. She can also be a danger to date, as someone with Borderline Personality Disorder (BPD) often originates from fatherless homes, which can lead to a fear of abandonment and acting out in extreme ways. If you recognize any of these signs, it is best to steer clear.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Red Flag #2: Feminists&nbsp;<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>She may be easily recognizable for her unnaturally dyed hair, tattoos, piercings, and lack of feminine cues. However, it is possible for a woman to appear feminine, yet still subscribe to feminist beliefs.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>These women will be hostile to men, prioritize careers over motherhood, and not take ownership of their actions. When in a relationship or considering marriage, observe her behavior and choices in life for two years to ensure she is not a feminist.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Red Flag #3: The Unhappy and Unlucky<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>Robert Green&#8217;s tenth law states to avoid such individuals, as they are a magnet for drawing drama into their lives and yours. This will rob you of your joy and leave you with a feeling of defeat. Associate with those who are happy and fortunate to protect yourself and your wellbeing.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Red Flag #4: She Competes with You<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>Watch out for a woman that is competing with you, as she does not value your worth. This results from the female primary social order telling women that they are better than men, which can lead to a woman thinking she is superior to you.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Pay attention to her behavior and hypergamy to determine if she values you and your worth. If she is constantly trying to compete, it is likely best to remove yourself from the situation, as it can easily lead to disaster.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Red Flag #5: Keeps Men from Her Past Around&nbsp;<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>If she has a &#8220;back-up plan&#8221; or is an &#8220;Alpha Widow&#8221; pining for her past, she will not give you her absolute best. Be wary of her seeing ex-boyfriends or male friends and ensure she has a genuine burning desire for you &#8211; not just &#8220;good enough&#8221;.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>If she does not cut emotional ties with other men, you will be a distraction from her true desires and not be treated as her best option.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Red Flag #6: Poor with Money&nbsp;<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>To avoid serious trouble, don&#8217;t enter an LTR with a woman who is poor with money. She may seem to have the same opportunities to earn a good living as men, but if her debt outweighs her assets, she may try to make her financial problems yours. Save yourself and stay away unless it&#8217;s just a FWB.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Red Flag #7: Violent Women&nbsp;<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>Violence from any woman is reason enough to end the relationship immediately. Even if you are the victim and\/or can record a video as proof, you may end up in handcuffs, as authorities are likely to believe her over you.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Red Flag #8: Extreme Jealousy&nbsp;<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>Excessive jealousy causes women to be like a predator drone, constantly checking on you and monitoring your activities. This can drain you of sanity, joy, and dignity, and is not something you should have to put up with. If your partner exhibits extreme levels of jealousy, it is not your job to help them with it.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Red Flag #9: Party Girls&nbsp;<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>Party girls, whether under 27 or older, are usually looking to market themselves to other men and not interested in a committed relationship. If she still often goes out partying with friends, don&#8217;t fall for the new age narrative of polyamory. Her actions speak louder than her words, so when there is a conflict between them, be wary and don&#8217;t put all your eggs in one basket if you choose to date her as a plate only.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Red Flag #10: Heavily Tattooed and Pierced Women<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>Women who are heavily tattooed and pierced may not be the best choice for an LTR. A single tattoo in a discreet location can be reasonable, but if she has visible tattoos when dressed normally, or piercings in bodies other than just her ears, she is likely to bring other red flags with her. Think twice about deciding to date her. The consequences may outweigh the benefits.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Red Flag #11: Big Notch Counts<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>Research shows that the younger a woman is when she loses her virginity and the higher her notch count, the less likely it is that she will bond healthily with a man over the long term.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Women rarely reveal their true notch count, and you should always double whatever number they give you. When looking for a woman to enter a monogamous LTR or marry with, look for a woman with a low notch count who lost her virginity later on in life. Avoid those who have been sexually active from a young age and consider them as FWB instead.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Red Flag #12: Single Mothers&nbsp;<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>You get no benefit from being a father figure to her children, and it might even land you with responsibility for them, as well as a lifetime of paying child support. A single mother may seem like a low-hanging fruit, but the risks far outweigh the rewards.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Red Flag #13: Women Seeking Validation<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>Avoid dating women who are using public social media accounts to seek validation from men. Women who openly exploiting their hypergamy on public accounts by posting provocative pictures may still be with you, but they&#8217;re also considering whether&nbsp; they can do better.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Red Flag #14: She Was a Sugar Baby<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>Investigate if a woman has been a &#8220;sugar baby&#8221; in the past by searching her emails for the term &#8220;seeking&#8221; or looking for emails from the site. If you find out she was a former Sugar Baby, it&#8217;s best to limit her to plate status only, in order to ensure you aren&#8217;t making a mistake by making a whore a housewife.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Red Flag #15: Pathological Liars&nbsp;<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>Women who lie pathologically can be an extreme danger. These women usually reveal their true colors over time because they can&#8217;t keep up with their own lies.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>To identify pathological liars, pay attention to her stories and be attentive when she speaks, and probe her stories by asking questions. If you&#8217;re able to spot these liars, it&#8217;s best to stay away from them, as they cannot be trusted and may put you and your health at risk.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Red Flag #16: Baby Rabies<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>Women who exhibit signs of &#8220;baby rabies&#8221; should be avoided as they are not interested in you and will not support your mission. These women have a biological imperative to reproduce, and are desperate to get married and have children, often asking if that&#8217;s what you want before getting to know you better. If you feel you&#8217;re being rushed into having children and getting married without allowing for a two-year vetting period, it&#8217;s a red flag and you should move on.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Red Flag #17: Hissy Fits<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>Women who throw &#8220;hissy fits&#8221; should be avoided, as they cannot process their emotions with maturity. Hissy fits involve her throwing a tantrum, such as passive aggressively going on social media or making underhanded posts about you, or overtly saying something like &#8220;just leave my stuff on the porch&#8221;. Do not argue with her about her hissy fit, instead set a boundary, then cut off all contact for four to five days and allow her to think about it. 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To dive into the details and support Richard Cooper, <a href=\"https:\/\/geni.us\/The-unplugged-alpha\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">order it here<\/a> or <a href=\"https:\/\/geni.us\/the-unplugged-alpha-au\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">get the audiobook for free<\/a>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Did you like what you learned here? Share to show you care and let us know by contacting our support.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>New to StoryShots? Get the PDF, audiobook, and animated versions of this summary of <em>The Unplugged Alpha<\/em> and hundreds of other bestselling nonfiction books in our <a href=\"https:\/\/go.getstoryshots.com\/free\">free top-ranking app<\/a>. 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