{"id":47808,"date":"2021-04-08T12:26:49","date_gmt":"2021-04-08T12:26:49","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.getstoryshots.com\/?p=47808"},"modified":"2024-08-01T11:49:34","modified_gmt":"2024-08-01T11:49:34","slug":"fortitude-summary","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.getstoryshots.com\/tr\/books\/fortitude-summary\/","title":{"rendered":"Dan Crenshaw'dan Metanet Kitap \u00d6zeti"},"content":{"rendered":"<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">\u00d6fke \u00c7a\u011f\u0131nda Amerikan Direnci<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/geni.us\/fortitude-audiobook\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">\u00dccretsiz Fortitude sesli kitab\u0131<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Sinopsis<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>Metanet, hayat\u0131n ac\u0131lar\u0131yla ba\u015fa \u00e7\u0131kacak g\u00fcc\u00fc nas\u0131l bulaca\u011f\u0131m\u0131za dair a\u00e7\u0131k s\u00f6zl\u00fc bir tavsiye kitab\u0131d\u0131r. Kitap, su\u00e7lama k\u00fclt\u00fcr\u00fcn\u00fc ortadan kald\u0131rmam\u0131z ve utanc\u0131 g\u00f6revler arac\u0131l\u0131\u011f\u0131yla kendimizi geli\u015ftirmek i\u00e7in kullanmam\u0131z gerekti\u011fini belirtiyor. Ayr\u0131ca, ma\u011fduriyeti kabul etmek yerine, anlat\u0131lar\u0131m\u0131z\u0131 de\u011fi\u015ftirerek sonu\u00e7lar\u0131m\u0131z\u0131 iyile\u015ftirmeyi hedeflemeliyiz. Nas\u0131l zor durumda kald\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131zdan \u00e7ok, ya\u015fad\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z zorluklardan nas\u0131l bir \u015feyler \u00f6\u011frenebilece\u011fimizi d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnmeliyiz.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Dan Crenshaw Hakk\u0131nda<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>Dan Crenshaw, Afganistan Sava\u015f\u0131'nda g\u00f6rev yapm\u0131\u015f eski bir ABD Donanma SEAL'idir. Yaraland\u0131ktan ve sa\u011f g\u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fc kaybettikten sonra g\u00f6revinden emekli olmu\u015ftur. Daha sonra Dan, Kongre \u00dcyesi Pete Sessions'\u0131n yasama asistan\u0131 olarak g\u00f6rev yapm\u0131\u015ft\u0131r. \u015eu anda Cumhuriyet\u00e7i partinin bir par\u00e7as\u0131 olarak Teksas'\u0131n 2. kongre b\u00f6lgesi i\u00e7in ABD Temsilciler Meclisi'nde g\u00f6rev yapmaktad\u0131r.\u00a0<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">\u00d6fke Zehirlidir<\/h2>\n\n\n\t\t<div class=\"ss-ctt-wrapper ss-ctt-style-4\" data-ss-post-id=\"47808\" data-nonce=\"cd1376591d\">\n\n\t\t\t<a href=\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/intent\/tweet?text=%22Antagonistic+headlines+of+the+last+few+years+had+finally+succeeded+in+manipulating+the+behaviors+and+emotions+of+our+citizens+and+directed+these+activities+to+the+tips+of+the+Capitol+to+encourage+others+along+the+same+path+of+indignation+and+everlasting+anger.%22+-+Dan+Crenshaw%C2%A0&#038;url=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.getstoryshots.com%2Ftr%2Fwp-json%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fposts%2F47808&#038;via=storyshots&#038;related=storyshots\" class=\"ss-ctt-tweet\" data-title=\"Click to Tweet\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\">\"Son birka\u00e7 y\u0131l\u0131n d\u00fc\u015fmanca man\u015fetleri nihayet vatanda\u015flar\u0131m\u0131z\u0131n davran\u0131\u015flar\u0131n\u0131 ve duygular\u0131n\u0131 manip\u00fcle etmeyi ba\u015farm\u0131\u015f ve bu faaliyetleri ba\u015fkalar\u0131n\u0131 da ayn\u0131 k\u0131zg\u0131nl\u0131k ve sonsuz \u00f6fke yolunda cesaretlendirmek i\u00e7in Kongre Binas\u0131'n\u0131n u\u00e7lar\u0131na y\u00f6nlendirmi\u015fti.\" - Dan Crenshaw&nbsp;<\/a>\n\n\t\t\t<a href=\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/intent\/tweet?text=%22Antagonistic+headlines+of+the+last+few+years+had+finally+succeeded+in+manipulating+the+behaviors+and+emotions+of+our+citizens+and+directed+these+activities+to+the+tips+of+the+Capitol+to+encourage+others+along+the+same+path+of+indignation+and+everlasting+anger.%22+-+Dan+Crenshaw%C2%A0&#038;url=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.getstoryshots.com%2Ftr%2Fwp-json%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fposts%2F47808&#038;via=storyshots&#038;related=storyshots\" class=\"ss-ctt-link\" data-title=\"Click to Tweet\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\">\n\t\t\t\t<span>Tweetlemek i\u00e7in t\u0131klay\u0131n<\/span>\n\t\t\t\t<svg class=\"ss-svg-icon\" aria-hidden=\"true\" role=\"img\" focusable=\"false\" width=\"32\" height=\"32\" viewbox=\"0 0 24 24\"><path d=\"M18.244 2.25h3.308l-7.227 8.26 8.502 11.24H16.17l-5.214-6.817L4.99 21.75H1.68l7.73-8.835L1.254 2.25H8.08l4.713 6.231zm-1.161 17.52h1.833L7.084 4.126H5.117z\"><\/path><\/svg>\t\t\t<\/a>\n\n\t\t<\/div><!-- END .ss-ctt-wrapper -->\n\n\t\t\n\n\n<p>Dan Crenshaw kitaba, Washington DC'deki Capitol Hill'de '\u00d6fkeli Kal' yaz\u0131l\u0131 ti\u015f\u00f6rtler giyen protestocularla nas\u0131l kar\u015f\u0131la\u015ft\u0131\u011f\u0131na dair anekdotlar anlatarak ba\u015fl\u0131yor. Dan, bu insanlar ve toplumun geneli i\u00e7in \u00f6fkenin amac\u0131n\u0131n ne oldu\u011funu sorguluyor.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u00d6fke, insanlarda bir zay\u0131fl\u0131k olarak g\u00f6r\u00fclmelidir. \u00d6fke, rasyonel d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnceden ziyade duyguyu vurgular ve bu nedenle nadiren \u00fcretkendir. \u015eu anda \u00f6fke k\u00fclt\u00fcr\u00fcyle g\u00f6lgelenmi\u015f bir \u00e7a\u011fday\u0131z. \u0130nsanlar sadece en k\u00f6t\u00fc niyetleri varsayma ve duygusal g\u00fcd\u00fcml\u00fc nefretle me\u015fgul olma e\u011filimindedir. Bununla birlikte, \u00f6fkenin hakl\u0131 oldu\u011fu durumlar da vard\u0131r. \u00d6rne\u011fin, adaletsizlikten kaynaklanan hakl\u0131 \u00f6fke ve k\u0131zg\u0131nl\u0131k ger\u00e7ek \u00f6fke bi\u00e7imleridir.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\t\t<div class=\"ss-ctt-wrapper ss-ctt-style-4\" data-ss-post-id=\"47808\" data-nonce=\"cd1376591d\">\n\n\t\t\t<a href=\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/intent\/tweet?text=%22Outrage+culture+is+the+weaponization+of+emotion%2C+and+the+elevation+of+emotion+above+reason.%22+-+Dan+Crenshaw&#038;url=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.getstoryshots.com%2Ftr%2Fwp-json%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fposts%2F47808&#038;via=storyshots&#038;related=storyshots\" class=\"ss-ctt-tweet\" data-title=\"Click to Tweet\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\">\"\u00d6fke k\u00fclt\u00fcr\u00fc, duygular\u0131n silah haline getirilmesi ve duygular\u0131n mant\u0131\u011f\u0131n \u00fczerine \u00e7\u0131kar\u0131lmas\u0131d\u0131r.\" - Dan Crenshaw<\/a>\n\n\t\t\t<a href=\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/intent\/tweet?text=%22Outrage+culture+is+the+weaponization+of+emotion%2C+and+the+elevation+of+emotion+above+reason.%22+-+Dan+Crenshaw&#038;url=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.getstoryshots.com%2Ftr%2Fwp-json%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fposts%2F47808&#038;via=storyshots&#038;related=storyshots\" class=\"ss-ctt-link\" data-title=\"Click to Tweet\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\">\n\t\t\t\t<span>Tweetlemek i\u00e7in t\u0131klay\u0131n<\/span>\n\t\t\t\t<svg class=\"ss-svg-icon\" aria-hidden=\"true\" role=\"img\" focusable=\"false\" width=\"32\" height=\"32\" viewbox=\"0 0 24 24\"><path d=\"M18.244 2.25h3.308l-7.227 8.26 8.502 11.24H16.17l-5.214-6.817L4.99 21.75H1.68l7.73-8.835L1.254 2.25H8.08l4.713 6.231zm-1.161 17.52h1.833L7.084 4.126H5.117z\"><\/path><\/svg>\t\t\t<\/a>\n\n\t\t<\/div><!-- END .ss-ctt-wrapper -->\n\n\t\t\n\n\n<p>G\u00fcn\u00fcm\u00fczde siyaset, ortak d\u00fc\u015fman kimlik siyasetine odaklanmaktad\u0131r. Bu siyaset mikro sald\u0131rganl\u0131k teorisi ile birle\u015ftirilmi\u015ftir. Neredeyse her \u015feyi yapmaya ya da s\u00f6ylemeye dayal\u0131 olarak kamusal utanca yol a\u00e7an bir k\u00fclt\u00fcr \u00fcretmektedir. Bu etki, internet ve art\u0131k mevcut olan \u00e7ok \u00e7e\u015fitli medya kurulu\u015flar\u0131 taraf\u0131ndan g\u00fc\u00e7lendirilmektedir. Art\u0131k objektif gazetecilik ile fikir gazetecili\u011fini birbirinden ay\u0131rmak neredeyse imkans\u0131z hale gelmi\u015ftir.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Haks\u0131z \u00f6fkenin panzehiri zihinsel metanettir. Dan Crenshaw, ba\u015fkalar\u0131n\u0131n duygusal durumumuzu belirlemesine izin vermememizi \u00f6neriyor. A\u015f\u0131r\u0131 bir duruma tepki olarak ortaya \u00e7\u0131kmad\u0131\u011f\u0131 s\u00fcrece \u00f6fke, yaln\u0131zca disiplin ve \u00f6zdenetimden yoksun olman\u0131zdan kaynaklan\u0131r.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Ac\u0131 \u00c7ekerken Perspektif Hayati \u00d6nem Ta\u015f\u0131r<\/h2>\n\n\n\t\t<div class=\"ss-ctt-wrapper ss-ctt-style-4\" data-ss-post-id=\"47808\" data-nonce=\"cd1376591d\">\n\n\t\t\t<a href=\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/intent\/tweet?text=%22Afghans+we+encountered+would+look+relatively+comfortable+in+sandals+and+a+thick+blanket+thrown+over+their+shoulders.+Not+much+different+from+their+wardrobe+in+the+spring+or+summer.+The+biting+cold+didn%27t+faze+them.+Punishment+was+part+of+their+routine.%22+-+Dan+Crenshaw&#038;url=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.getstoryshots.com%2Ftr%2Fwp-json%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fposts%2F47808&#038;via=storyshots&#038;related=storyshots\" class=\"ss-ctt-tweet\" data-title=\"Click to Tweet\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\">\u201cKar\u015f\u0131la\u015ft\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z Afganlar sandaletler ve omuzlar\u0131na att\u0131klar\u0131 kal\u0131n bir battaniyeyle nispeten rahat g\u00f6r\u00fcn\u00fcyorlard\u0131. Bahar ya da yaz aylar\u0131ndaki gard\u0131roplar\u0131ndan pek de farkl\u0131 de\u011fillerdi. Is\u0131r\u0131c\u0131 so\u011fuk onlar\u0131 \u00fcrk\u00fctm\u00fcyordu. Cezaland\u0131rma rutinlerinin bir par\u00e7as\u0131yd\u0131.\u201d - Dan Crenshaw<\/a>\n\n\t\t\t<a href=\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/intent\/tweet?text=%22Afghans+we+encountered+would+look+relatively+comfortable+in+sandals+and+a+thick+blanket+thrown+over+their+shoulders.+Not+much+different+from+their+wardrobe+in+the+spring+or+summer.+The+biting+cold+didn%27t+faze+them.+Punishment+was+part+of+their+routine.%22+-+Dan+Crenshaw&#038;url=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.getstoryshots.com%2Ftr%2Fwp-json%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fposts%2F47808&#038;via=storyshots&#038;related=storyshots\" class=\"ss-ctt-link\" data-title=\"Click to Tweet\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\">\n\t\t\t\t<span>Tweetlemek i\u00e7in t\u0131klay\u0131n<\/span>\n\t\t\t\t<svg class=\"ss-svg-icon\" aria-hidden=\"true\" role=\"img\" focusable=\"false\" width=\"32\" height=\"32\" viewbox=\"0 0 24 24\"><path d=\"M18.244 2.25h3.308l-7.227 8.26 8.502 11.24H16.17l-5.214-6.817L4.99 21.75H1.68l7.73-8.835L1.254 2.25H8.08l4.713 6.231zm-1.161 17.52h1.833L7.084 4.126H5.117z\"><\/path><\/svg>\t\t\t<\/a>\n\n\t\t<\/div><!-- END .ss-ctt-wrapper -->\n\n\t\t\n\n\n<p>Dan Crenshaw, ac\u0131 \u00e7ekme fikrini anlatmak i\u00e7in Afganistan'da Navy SEAL olarak g\u00f6rev yapt\u0131\u011f\u0131 d\u00f6nemden ve annesinin \u00f6l\u00fcm\u00fcnden \u00f6rnekler veriyor. Dan, Afganistan'da bir g\u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fc kaybetmesine ve neredeyse tamamen g\u00f6rme yetisini yitirmesine yol a\u00e7an ciddi bir yaralanma ge\u00e7irmi\u015ftir. Bu ac\u0131, k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck bir \u00e7ocukken annesini kanserden kaybetmesinin ard\u0131ndan geldi. Ancak, her iki olayda da, bu ac\u0131y\u0131 atlatmas\u0131na ve bundan ders \u00e7\u0131karmas\u0131na yard\u0131mc\u0131 olmas\u0131 i\u00e7in bak\u0131\u015f a\u00e7\u0131s\u0131n\u0131 kulland\u0131.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Afganistan'dayken Afganlara kar\u015f\u0131 ger\u00e7ek bir hayranl\u0131k duyuyordu. Ortalama bir Amerikal\u0131n\u0131n asla hayal edemeyece\u011fi g\u00fcnl\u00fck ac\u0131lara katlan\u0131yorlard\u0131. Ancak, hayatlar\u0131na devam ediyor ve i\u00e7inde bulunduklar\u0131 ko\u015fullarda ellerinden geleni yap\u0131yorlard\u0131. Afganlar\u0131n g\u00fcnl\u00fck ac\u0131lar\u0131n\u0131 ve bu ac\u0131larla nas\u0131l ba\u015fa \u00e7\u0131kt\u0131klar\u0131n\u0131 g\u00f6rmek Dan'in yaralar\u0131yla y\u00fczle\u015fmesine yard\u0131mc\u0131 oldu.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Benzer \u015fekilde Dan de annesi vefat etti\u011finde b\u00fcy\u00fck bir ac\u0131 ya\u015fam\u0131\u015ft\u0131r. Ancak Dan bu zaman\u0131 bir \u00f6\u011frenme deneyimi olarak kulland\u0131. Annesi sonuna kadar bir kahramand\u0131 ve onu da onun kadar g\u00fc\u00e7l\u00fc olmas\u0131 i\u00e7in motive etti. Bu ac\u0131, daha sonra Afganistan'da \u00e7ekti\u011fi ac\u0131larla ba\u015fa \u00e7\u0131kmas\u0131na yard\u0131mc\u0131 oldu.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Dan, perspektifi kullanabilece\u011fimiz en \u00f6nemli \u015feylerden biri olarak tan\u0131ml\u0131yor. Zor bir durumla ba\u015fa \u00e7\u0131kman\u0131za yard\u0131mc\u0131 olman\u0131n yan\u0131 s\u0131ra, \u00f6fkenin panzehiri de olabilir. Perspektif, kendinize ac\u0131man\u0131za ve umutsuzlu\u011fa kap\u0131lman\u0131za engel olabilir. Bu duygular\u0131n her ikisi de \u00f6fkenin \u00f6nc\u00fclleridir.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\t\t<div class=\"ss-ctt-wrapper ss-ctt-style-4\" data-ss-post-id=\"47808\" data-nonce=\"cd1376591d\">\n\n\t\t\t<a href=\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/intent\/tweet?text=%22A+healthy+sense+of+perspective+is+an+antidote+to+outrage.+It+is+an+antidote+to+self-pity%2C+despair%2C+and+weakness.+It+is+not+a+cure-all%E2%80%A6but+it+is+sure+to+dull+the+edges+of+your+worst+tendencies%22+-+Dan+Crenshaw&#038;url=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.getstoryshots.com%2Ftr%2Fwp-json%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fposts%2F47808&#038;via=storyshots&#038;related=storyshots\" class=\"ss-ctt-tweet\" data-title=\"Click to Tweet\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\">\"Sa\u011fl\u0131kl\u0131 bir perspektif duygusu \u00f6fkenin panzehiridir. Kendine ac\u0131ma, umutsuzluk ve zay\u0131fl\u0131\u011fa kar\u015f\u0131 bir panzehirdir. Her derde deva de\u011fildir... ama en k\u00f6t\u00fc e\u011filimlerinizin kenarlar\u0131n\u0131 k\u00f6reltece\u011fi kesindir.\" - Dan Crenshaw<\/a>\n\n\t\t\t<a href=\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/intent\/tweet?text=%22A+healthy+sense+of+perspective+is+an+antidote+to+outrage.+It+is+an+antidote+to+self-pity%2C+despair%2C+and+weakness.+It+is+not+a+cure-all%E2%80%A6but+it+is+sure+to+dull+the+edges+of+your+worst+tendencies%22+-+Dan+Crenshaw&#038;url=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.getstoryshots.com%2Ftr%2Fwp-json%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fposts%2F47808&#038;via=storyshots&#038;related=storyshots\" class=\"ss-ctt-link\" data-title=\"Click to Tweet\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\">\n\t\t\t\t<span>Tweetlemek i\u00e7in t\u0131klay\u0131n<\/span>\n\t\t\t\t<svg class=\"ss-svg-icon\" aria-hidden=\"true\" role=\"img\" focusable=\"false\" width=\"32\" height=\"32\" viewbox=\"0 0 24 24\"><path d=\"M18.244 2.25h3.308l-7.227 8.26 8.502 11.24H16.17l-5.214-6.817L4.99 21.75H1.68l7.73-8.835L1.254 2.25H8.08l4.713 6.231zm-1.161 17.52h1.833L7.084 4.126H5.117z\"><\/path><\/svg>\t\t\t<\/a>\n\n\t\t<\/div><!-- END .ss-ctt-wrapper -->\n\n\t\t\n\n\n<p>\u00d6nemli olan bak\u0131\u015f a\u00e7\u0131m\u0131z\u0131 de\u011fi\u015ftirebilmemizdir. Bak\u0131\u015f a\u00e7\u0131lar\u0131m\u0131z deneyimlerle de\u011fi\u015fir, ancak ayn\u0131 zamanda \u00f6\u011frenilebilir ve kendi kendimize \u00f6\u011fretilebilir. Dolay\u0131s\u0131yla, ac\u0131 \u00e7ekmeyi ya da minnettar olmay\u0131 se\u00e7ebiliriz.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Kim Olmay\u0131 Hedeflemeliyiz<\/h2>\n\n\n\t\t<div class=\"ss-ctt-wrapper ss-ctt-style-4\" data-ss-post-id=\"47808\" data-nonce=\"cd1376591d\">\n\n\t\t\t<a href=\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/intent\/tweet?text=%22When+we+ask+ourselves+who+we+want+to+be%2C+we+are+defining+the+character+traits+that+we+aspire+to.+Those+character+traits+don%27t+just+appear+out+of+nowhere%3B+they+are+observed+and+then+adopted.+We+identify+them+in+others%2C+and+we+make+those+people+our+heroes.%22+-+Dan+Crenshaw&#038;url=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.getstoryshots.com%2Ftr%2Fwp-json%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fposts%2F47808&#038;via=storyshots&#038;related=storyshots\" class=\"ss-ctt-tweet\" data-title=\"Click to Tweet\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\">\u201cKendimize kim olmak istedi\u011fimizi sordu\u011fumuzda, arzulad\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z karakter \u00f6zelliklerini tan\u0131mlam\u0131\u015f oluruz. Bu karakter \u00f6zellikleri birdenbire ortaya \u00e7\u0131kmaz; g\u00f6zlemlenir ve sonra benimsenir. Onlar\u0131 ba\u015fkalar\u0131nda buluruz ve o insanlar\u0131 kahraman\u0131m\u0131z yapar\u0131z.\u201d - Dan Crenshaw<\/a>\n\n\t\t\t<a href=\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/intent\/tweet?text=%22When+we+ask+ourselves+who+we+want+to+be%2C+we+are+defining+the+character+traits+that+we+aspire+to.+Those+character+traits+don%27t+just+appear+out+of+nowhere%3B+they+are+observed+and+then+adopted.+We+identify+them+in+others%2C+and+we+make+those+people+our+heroes.%22+-+Dan+Crenshaw&#038;url=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.getstoryshots.com%2Ftr%2Fwp-json%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fposts%2F47808&#038;via=storyshots&#038;related=storyshots\" class=\"ss-ctt-link\" data-title=\"Click to Tweet\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\">\n\t\t\t\t<span>Tweetlemek i\u00e7in t\u0131klay\u0131n<\/span>\n\t\t\t\t<svg class=\"ss-svg-icon\" aria-hidden=\"true\" role=\"img\" focusable=\"false\" width=\"32\" height=\"32\" viewbox=\"0 0 24 24\"><path d=\"M18.244 2.25h3.308l-7.227 8.26 8.502 11.24H16.17l-5.214-6.817L4.99 21.75H1.68l7.73-8.835L1.254 2.25H8.08l4.713 6.231zm-1.161 17.52h1.833L7.084 4.126H5.117z\"><\/path><\/svg>\t\t\t<\/a>\n\n\t\t<\/div><!-- END .ss-ctt-wrapper -->\n\n\t\t\n\n\n<p>Dan, insanlar\u0131 idolle\u015ftirmek yerine, motivasyonumuz i\u00e7in kahramanlara bakmam\u0131z gerekti\u011fine inan\u0131yor. Dan liseden mezun oldu\u011funda bir SEAL olmaya yak\u0131n olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 kabul ediyor. Ancak bu onu klasik bir SEAL tasviri olmay\u0131 arzulamaktan al\u0131koymad\u0131. Bir SEAL olmak i\u00e7in belirli kurallara uyan bir ki\u015fi olmay\u0131 arzuluyordu. Bunlar\u0131n her biri herkesin hayat\u0131na uygulanabilir:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>Asla ge\u00e7 kalmayan biri olacaks\u0131n\u0131z<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>\u0130nsanlarla ilgilenen, onlar\u0131 tan\u0131yan ve ihtiya\u00e7lar\u0131na \u00f6ncelik veren biri olacaks\u0131n\u0131z<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Zorluklar kar\u015f\u0131s\u0131nda pes etmeyen biri olacaks\u0131n\u0131z<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Kimse yapmad\u0131\u011f\u0131nda sorumlulu\u011fu \u00fcstlenen ve liderlik eden biri olacaks\u0131n\u0131z<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Detay odakl\u0131 ve her zaman tetikte olacaks\u0131n\u0131z<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Hareketlerinizde agresif olacaks\u0131n\u0131z ama asla so\u011fukkanl\u0131l\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 kaybetmeyeceksiniz<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Mizah anlay\u0131\u015f\u0131n\u0131z olacak \u00e7\u00fcnk\u00fc bazen sizi en karanl\u0131k saatlerden ge\u00e7irebilecek tek \u015fey budur<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Kimse izlemese bile \u00e7ok \u00e7al\u0131\u015facak ve performans g\u00f6stereceksiniz<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Ba\u015f\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 belaya soksa bile yarat\u0131c\u0131 olacak ve kal\u0131plar\u0131n d\u0131\u015f\u0131nda d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcneceksiniz<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Sen bir asisin ama isyanc\u0131 de\u011filsin.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Sen her i\u015fin ustas\u0131s\u0131n ama hi\u00e7bir i\u015fin ustas\u0131 de\u011filsin.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p>Buna ek olarak Dan, \u015f\u00f6yle biri olmay\u0131 hedeflememeyi tavsiye ediyor:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>H\u00fccum edebilecekleri yerleri bulurlar<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Sokaklara \u00e7\u0131karak \u00f6fkeli bir \u015fekilde tepki g\u00f6sterin<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Sorumluluktan ka\u00e7mak ve haks\u0131zl\u0131\u011fa u\u011frad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 veya bir \u015fey bor\u00e7lu oldu\u011funuzu varsaymak<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Ba\u015far\u0131s\u0131z Olmay\u0131 Se\u00e7mek Bir Sorundur<\/h2>\n\n\n\t\t<div class=\"ss-ctt-wrapper ss-ctt-style-4\" data-ss-post-id=\"47808\" data-nonce=\"cd1376591d\">\n\n\t\t\t<a href=\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/intent\/tweet?text=%22Plan+B+is+an+alternate+universe+which+only+you+can+choose+to+engage+in.+It+should+be+less+satisfying+in+every+single+way+because+it+represents+a+lesser+version+of+yourself.%22+-+Dan+Crenshaw&#038;url=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.getstoryshots.com%2Ftr%2Fwp-json%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fposts%2F47808&#038;via=storyshots&#038;related=storyshots\" class=\"ss-ctt-tweet\" data-title=\"Click to Tweet\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\">\"B Plan\u0131, yaln\u0131zca sizin dahil olmay\u0131 se\u00e7ebilece\u011finiz alternatif bir evrendir. Her y\u00f6nden daha az tatmin edici olmal\u0131d\u0131r \u00e7\u00fcnk\u00fc kendinizin daha d\u00fc\u015f\u00fck bir versiyonunu temsil eder.\" - Dan Crenshaw<\/a>\n\n\t\t\t<a href=\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/intent\/tweet?text=%22Plan+B+is+an+alternate+universe+which+only+you+can+choose+to+engage+in.+It+should+be+less+satisfying+in+every+single+way+because+it+represents+a+lesser+version+of+yourself.%22+-+Dan+Crenshaw&#038;url=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.getstoryshots.com%2Ftr%2Fwp-json%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fposts%2F47808&#038;via=storyshots&#038;related=storyshots\" class=\"ss-ctt-link\" data-title=\"Click to Tweet\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\">\n\t\t\t\t<span>Tweetlemek i\u00e7in t\u0131klay\u0131n<\/span>\n\t\t\t\t<svg class=\"ss-svg-icon\" aria-hidden=\"true\" role=\"img\" focusable=\"false\" width=\"32\" height=\"32\" viewbox=\"0 0 24 24\"><path d=\"M18.244 2.25h3.308l-7.227 8.26 8.502 11.24H16.17l-5.214-6.817L4.99 21.75H1.68l7.73-8.835L1.254 2.25H8.08l4.713 6.231zm-1.161 17.52h1.833L7.084 4.126H5.117z\"><\/path><\/svg>\t\t\t<\/a>\n\n\t\t<\/div><!-- END .ss-ctt-wrapper -->\n\n\t\t\n\n\n<p>B\u0131rak\u0131p b\u0131rakmama konusunda her zaman bir se\u00e7enek vard\u0131r. Her zaman sebat etmeyi se\u00e7melisiniz. Azim, her ne pahas\u0131na olursa olsun B planlar\u0131ndan ka\u00e7\u0131nmay\u0131 i\u00e7erir. B planlar\u0131 geli\u015ftirmeye ba\u015flad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z anda, b\u0131rakma olas\u0131l\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 kendinize kabul ettirmi\u015f olursunuz. B planlar\u0131 As planlar\u0131n\u0131 ba\u015far\u0131s\u0131z k\u0131lar.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Dan Crenshaw ayr\u0131ca modern Amerikan toplumunun kusurlu bir hak sistemine sahip oldu\u011funu a\u00e7\u0131kl\u0131yor. \u0130nsanlar hayatta kazanma ve ba\u015far\u0131l\u0131 olma hakk\u0131na sahip olduklar\u0131n\u0131 d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcyor. Bu hak, bireylerin sebat etmesini engeller.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\"S\u0131rf hakk\u0131n\u0131z oldu\u011funu d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnd\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn\u00fcz i\u00e7in kazanamazs\u0131n\u0131z. Stat\u00fcn\u00fcz... erdemlerinizden daha a\u011f\u0131r basan ayr\u0131cal\u0131klar getirmez.\" - Dan Crenshaw<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Dan ba\u015far\u0131s\u0131zl\u0131\u011f\u0131n bir sorun olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 belirtiyor. Ba\u015far\u0131s\u0131zl\u0131k hayat\u0131n bir par\u00e7as\u0131d\u0131r ve bu deneyimlerden ders \u00e7\u0131karabiliriz. Sorunlar, b\u0131rakarak ba\u015far\u0131s\u0131z olmay\u0131 se\u00e7ti\u011fimizde ortaya \u00e7\u0131kar. B\u0131rakma olas\u0131l\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 azaltman\u0131n bir yolu, hayatta bir ama\u00e7 bulmakt\u0131r. Ama\u00e7lar sebat etmeyi anlaml\u0131 k\u0131lar. Dan, ki\u015fisel bir ama\u00e7 belirleyebilece\u011finiz alanlar\u0131n bir listesini sunuyor:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>Senin ailen<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Ba\u015fkalar\u0131na \u00f6\u011freterek<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Bir i\u015f kurarak<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Di\u011fer insanlara yard\u0131m ederek<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Durun, Bak\u0131n, Dinleyin ve Koklay\u0131n<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>\"Beklenmedik bir durumla do\u011fru bir \u015fekilde y\u00fczle\u015fmenin tek yolu, onunla m\u00fcmk\u00fcn oldu\u011funca sakin bir \u015fekilde y\u00fczle\u015fmektir.\" - Dan Crenshaw<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Dan'in SEAL'deyken kullanmay\u0131 \u00f6\u011frendi\u011fi taktik prosed\u00fcrlerden biri Dur, Bak, Dinle ve Kokla (SLLS) prosed\u00fcr\u00fcyd\u00fc. Bu yakla\u015f\u0131m Stoac\u0131l\u0131\u011f\u0131n temel inan\u00e7lar\u0131ndan biri olan hareketsizlikle ili\u015fkilidir. Neyi kontrol edip edemeyece\u011finizi d\u00fcr\u00fcst\u00e7e de\u011ferlendirmek \u00e7ok \u00f6nemlidir. Stresli durumlarda sakin kalabilmek, zorluklar ve e\u011fitimle geli\u015ftirilebilecek harika bir erdemdir.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Ayn\u0131 sakinlik bilgimize de uygulanmal\u0131d\u0131r. Fikirlerimizi duygulardan ziyade ger\u00e7eklere ve deneyimlere dayand\u0131rarak, g\u00f6r\u00fc\u015flerimiz bize yava\u015f ve sakin bir \u015fekilde gelmelidir.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">B\u00fcy\u00fck \u015eeyler \u0130\u00e7in Endi\u015felenmeyin ve Mizahla K\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck \u015eeyler \u0130\u00e7in Endi\u015felenin<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>\"K\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck \u015feyler hakk\u0131nda i\u00e7inizi d\u00f6kmek, \u015fikayet etmenin ne kadar aptalca ve verimsiz oldu\u011fu konusunda size bir bak\u0131\u015f a\u00e7\u0131s\u0131 kazand\u0131r\u0131r... bu bir hayal k\u0131r\u0131kl\u0131\u011f\u0131 giderme valfidir.\" - Dan Crenshaw<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Sadece \u00fczerinde kontrol\u00fcm\u00fcz olan \u015feyler hakk\u0131nda endi\u015felenmek \u00e7ok \u00f6nemlidir. Bu nedenle Dan sadece 'k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck \u015feyler i\u00e7in endi\u015felenmemizi' \u00f6nerir. Ancak, k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck \u015feyler hakk\u0131nda belirli bir \u015fekilde endi\u015felenmeliyiz. \u00d6rne\u011fin, k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck sorunlar hakk\u0131nda sadece ne\u015feli ve esprili bir \u015fekilde endi\u015felenmeliyiz. Ayr\u0131ca, kendimizi detay odakl\u0131 ve gayretli olmaya zorlamal\u0131y\u0131z. Nihayetinde, k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck \u015feylerden \u015fikayet etmek katartik olabilir. \u015eikayet etmenin pek de faydal\u0131 olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 ve yapman\u0131n \u00e7ok daha verimli oldu\u011funu daha iyi anlaman\u0131za yard\u0131mc\u0131 olur.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Dan, mizah\u0131n karakter olu\u015fturmak i\u00e7in gerekli oldu\u011funa inan\u0131yor. \u015eu anda komedyenler, esprileri yeterince PC olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131 i\u00e7in \u00fcniversite kamp\u00fcslerinden kovuluyor. Dan bunu b\u00fcy\u00fck bir sorun olarak g\u00f6r\u00fcyor, \u00e7\u00fcnk\u00fc mizah duygusal ifadenin kalbinde yer al\u0131yor.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\"Mizah anlay\u0131\u015f\u0131m\u0131z\u0131 kaybedemeyiz. Bunun alternatifi, me\u015fhur yumurta kabuklar\u0131 \u00fczerinde y\u00fcr\u00fcyen, duygusal olarak t\u0131kanm\u0131\u015f bir toplumdur.\" - Dan Crenshaw<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Dan, yaln\u0131zca k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck sorunlar hakk\u0131nda endi\u015felenmenin yan\u0131 s\u0131ra, ayr\u0131nt\u0131 odakl\u0131 olmay\u0131 da \u00f6neriyor. Bilgi edinmeyi hedeflerken her k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck ayr\u0131nt\u0131ya odaklanmaya \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmal\u0131y\u0131z. Dan detay odakl\u0131 olmay\u0131 \u015fu \u015fekilde \u00f6neriyor:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>Daha fazla soru sormak<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Ba\u011flam ve niyetin dikkate al\u0131nmas\u0131<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Kar\u015f\u0131 arg\u00fcmanlar\u0131 de\u011ferlendirmek ve yapmak<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Bir konuyu derinlemesine incelemek<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Tarihsel ba\u011flam\u0131 g\u00f6z \u00f6n\u00fcnde bulundurarak<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Utanmak ve \u0130ptal Edilmek Yerine \u0130yile\u015ftirmek \u0130\u00e7in Utanmak<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>\"Kefaret, ayd\u0131nlanm\u0131\u015f bir toplumun alametifarikas\u0131d\u0131r.\" - Dan Crenshaw<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Genellikle utan\u00e7 duygusu verimsiz bir \u015fekilde kullan\u0131l\u0131yor. Ancak Dan Crenshaw, do\u011fru utan\u00e7 duygusunun geli\u015fime yol a\u00e7abilece\u011fine inan\u0131yor. \u00d6zellikle, telafi toplumun \u00f6fke ve iptal k\u00fclt\u00fcr\u00fc taraf\u0131ndan engellenen g\u00fczel bir par\u00e7as\u0131d\u0131r. Ba\u015far\u0131s\u0131zl\u0131klardan kurtulan insanlar, bu ba\u015far\u0131s\u0131zl\u0131klardan ders almak zorunda kald\u0131klar\u0131 i\u00e7in genellikle daha iyi bilgi ve anlay\u0131\u015fa sahip olacaklard\u0131r.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Bu nedenle Dan, di\u011fer insanlar\u0131n g\u00f6r\u00fc\u015flerini daha kabullenici olmam\u0131z gerekti\u011fini \u00f6ne s\u00fcrmektedir. Bir g\u00f6r\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn ard\u0131ndaki niyeti varsaymak yerine, niyetini anlamam\u0131za yard\u0131mc\u0131 olmas\u0131 i\u00e7in ki\u015fiden olabildi\u011fince fazla bilgi toplamal\u0131y\u0131z. \u015eu anda kitle ileti\u015fim ara\u00e7lar\u0131 her zaman utand\u0131racak kamusal fig\u00fcrler ar\u0131yor. Bu utan\u00e7, ki\u015finin \u00f6\u011frenmesi ve kendini affettirmesi i\u00e7in f\u0131rsat sa\u011flamaz. Dolay\u0131s\u0131yla bu yakla\u015f\u0131m, \u00fcretken bir utan\u00e7tan ziyade insanlar\u0131 iki kategoriden birine itmektedir:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\"\u00d6fke \u00e7etesinin a\u015f\u0131r\u0131 do\u011fas\u0131... utan\u00e7 tepkisini a\u015f\u0131r\u0131 kategorilere zorlad\u0131. Art\u0131k herkesin \u00f6n\u00fcnde iki se\u00e7enek var: Ya b\u00fcy\u00fck bir utan\u00e7 duymak ya da hi\u00e7 utanmamak... Ortadaki se\u00e7enek olan, i\u015flenen su\u00e7la orant\u0131l\u0131 olarak az miktarda utan\u00e7 duymak ise neredeyse hi\u00e7 se\u00e7enek de\u011fil.\" - Dan Crenshaw<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Do\u011fru miktarda utan\u00e7, hesap verebilir olmam\u0131z\u0131 ve kendimizi geli\u015ftirmemizi sa\u011flar. Utan\u00e7 eksikli\u011fi de yanl\u0131\u015ft\u0131r \u00e7\u00fcnk\u00fc k\u00f6t\u00fc davran\u0131\u015flar\u0131 ve kendine hizmet eden eylemleri hakl\u0131 \u00e7\u0131kar\u0131r. Ayr\u0131ca k\u00f6t\u00fc davran\u0131\u015flar\u0131n\u0131zdan ve sorunlar\u0131n\u0131zdan ba\u015fkas\u0131n\u0131 sorumlu tutar. E\u011fer su\u00e7 her zaman ba\u015fkas\u0131n\u0131n \u00fczerine at\u0131l\u0131rsa, kendini geli\u015ftirme f\u0131rsat\u0131 da kalmaz. Bu nedenle, utanc\u0131n m\u00fckemmel orta noktas\u0131n\u0131 belirlemeye \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmal\u0131y\u0131z.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\"Utan\u00e7 hesap verebilirliktir... ki\u015fisel sorumluluk g\u00fc\u00e7lenmeye, kontrole ve nihayetinde ba\u015far\u0131ya g\u00f6t\u00fcr\u00fcr.\" - Dan Crenshaw<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">G\u00f6rev Utan\u00e7 Duygusunun Olumlu Belirtisidir<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>\"Utan\u00e7 ve g\u00f6rev birbiriyle yak\u0131ndan ba\u011flant\u0131l\u0131d\u0131r. Utan\u00e7 duymal\u0131s\u0131n\u0131z ki g\u00f6rev bilinciyle hareket edebilesiniz. G\u00f6rev, olumsuz bir duygu olan utanc\u0131n olumlu bir sonucudur.\" - Dan Crenshaw<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Utan\u00e7, g\u00f6rev duygumuzla hareket etmemiz i\u00e7in gereklidir. Dan g\u00f6revleri, erdemin kendisi u\u011fruna pe\u015finden gitmeniz gereken erdemler ve ya\u015famdaki de\u011ferler olarak tan\u0131mlar. Ancak bu, yaln\u0131zca \u00f6nemli erdemlerin pe\u015finden gitmemiz gerekti\u011fi anlam\u0131na gelmez. Bunun yerine, yapt\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z her \u015feyde g\u00f6rev aray\u0131\u015f\u0131 i\u00e7inde olmal\u0131y\u0131z. Dan \u00e7\u00f6p atma \u00f6rne\u011fini veriyor. \u00c7\u00f6p atma konusunda kendimizi k\u00f6t\u00fc hissetmezsek, okyanusa d\u00f6k\u00fclmeden \u00f6nce r\u00f6gar\u0131n yan\u0131ndaki plastik \u015fi\u015feleri toplamak i\u00e7in bir g\u00f6rev duygusu hissetmeyiz. G\u00fcnl\u00fck ya\u015fam\u0131m\u0131zda g\u00f6rev bilincine sahip de\u011filsek, sorunlar ortaya \u00e7\u0131kt\u0131\u011f\u0131nda g\u00f6revimizi yerine getirmek i\u00e7in motive olmay\u0131 bekleyemeyiz.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\"Bir Amerikal\u0131 olarak k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck de olsa katk\u0131da bulunmak gibi bir g\u00f6reviniz var... Onursuz bir i\u015f yoktur. Her k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck i\u015f \u00fclkenize bir katk\u0131d\u0131r.\" - Dan Crenshaw<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Dan, g\u00f6revinizi belirlemenin bir yolunun on emir oldu\u011funu a\u00e7\u0131kl\u0131yor. Bu emirleri ilahi yasa olarak g\u00f6r\u00fcr ve her zaman be\u015feri yasalara g\u00f6re \u00f6ncelikli olmal\u0131d\u0131r. Dan bu emirlerin tart\u0131\u015f\u0131labilir oldu\u011funa inanm\u0131yor. Aksine, evrensel olarak do\u011frudurlar ve hepimizin uymak i\u00e7in \u00e7aba g\u00f6stermesi gereken bir \u015feydirler.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">G\u00f6n\u00fcll\u00fc Zorluklara Kat\u0131l\u0131n<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>\"Zorluklarla s\u0131nanmam\u0131\u015f bir ya\u015fam ka\u00e7\u0131r\u0131lm\u0131\u015f bir f\u0131rsatt\u0131r... bu nedenle zor bir \u015fey yapmaya \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131n.\" - Dan Crenshaw<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Dan Crenshaw, kendi kendimize zorluklar \u00e7\u0131karmam\u0131z gerekti\u011fine inan\u0131yor. Bunu g\u00f6n\u00fcll\u00fc zorluk olarak adland\u0131r\u0131yor. Zorluklarla u\u011fra\u015fmak ve \u00fcstesinden gelmek \u00f6zg\u00fcven yaratmaya yard\u0131mc\u0131 olur. Ayr\u0131ca, k\u00f6\u015feyi d\u00f6nen bir sonraki zor \u015feyle ba\u015fa \u00e7\u0131kmam\u0131za yard\u0131mc\u0131 olur.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\"Ac\u0131 \u00e7ekmenin a\u015f\u0131r\u0131 olmas\u0131 gerekmez, ancak al\u0131\u015fkanl\u0131k haline gelmelidir, b\u00f6ylece her seferinde bir kez meydan okuyarak g\u00fcveninizi art\u0131rma al\u0131\u015fkanl\u0131\u011f\u0131 edinirsiniz.\" - Dan Crenshaw<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Dan, h\u00fck\u00fcmetin zorluklar\u0131n pe\u015finden ko\u015fmam\u0131z\u0131 korumas\u0131 gerekti\u011fini savunuyor. \u0130nsanlar\u0131n hayat\u0131ndan ac\u0131y\u0131 \u00e7\u0131karmak asl\u0131nda bireyin anlam\u0131n\u0131, metanetini ve \u00f6zg\u00fcvenini elinden al\u0131r.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Anlat\u0131m\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 Kontrol Edin<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>\"Her ba\u015far\u0131s\u0131zl\u0131ktan sonra... o an\u0131 a\u00e7\u0131klamak i\u00e7in ki\u015fisel bir anlat\u0131 yarat\u0131r\u0131z. Kendimize bir hikaye anlat\u0131yoruz.\" - Dan Crenshaw<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Olaylar\u0131 her zaman kontrol edemeyiz, ancak olay meydana geldikten sonra kendimize anlatt\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z hikayeyi kontrol edebiliriz. Dan, hikayeniz \u00fczerinde kontrol sahibi oldu\u011funuzu fark etmenin size hesap verebilirlik, g\u00fc\u00e7 ve \u00f6zg\u00fcrl\u00fck verdi\u011fine inan\u0131yor.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Her zaman size bir \u015fey yap\u0131ld\u0131\u011f\u0131na inanmak (pasif) ya da hikayenin sizin yapt\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z eylem ya da sorumlulukla ilgili olup olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131na (aktif) karar vermek durumunday\u0131z. Birincisi \u00f6fke k\u00fclt\u00fcr\u00fc ile ili\u015fkilidir. Mevcut durumunuz i\u00e7in ba\u015fkalar\u0131n\u0131 su\u00e7lar ve sizi \u00e7aresiz b\u0131rak\u0131r. \u0130kincisi ise kendinizi geli\u015ftirmenize yard\u0131mc\u0131 olur ve uzun vadede sizi daha mutlu ve daha iyi bir insan yapar.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Dan, okuyucular\u0131n kendilerine a\u015fa\u011f\u0131daki sorular\u0131 sormalar\u0131n\u0131 istiyor:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>Hangi eylemlerim buna neden oldu?<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Neyi farkl\u0131 yapabilirdim?<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Bir daha olursa ne yapaca\u011f\u0131m?<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p>Bu \u00f6zet hakk\u0131nda geri bildiriminiz varsa veya \u00f6\u011frendiklerinizi payla\u015fmak istiyorsan\u0131z, a\u015fa\u011f\u0131ya yorum yap\u0131n veya bize tweet at\u0131n <a href=\"https:\/\/www.twitter.com\/storyshots\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">@storyshots<\/a>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>StoryShots'ta yeni misiniz? Bu \u00f6zetin ve di\u011fer y\u00fczlerce \u00e7ok satan kurgusal olmayan kitab\u0131n sesli ve animasyonlu versiyonlar\u0131n\u0131 <a href=\"https:\/\/go.getstoryshots.com\/free\">\u00fccretsiz \u00fcst d\u00fczey uygulama. <\/a>Apple, The Guardian, BM ve Google taraf\u0131ndan 175 \u00fclkede #1 olarak g\u00f6sterildi.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Ayr\u0131nt\u0131lara dalmak i\u00e7in kitab\u0131 sipari\u015f edin veya sesli kitab\u0131 \u00fccretsiz edinin.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">\u0130lgili Kitap \u00d6zetleri<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.getstoryshots.com\/tr\/books\/12-rules-for-life-summary\/\" data-type=\"post\" data-id=\"224\">Ya\u015fam i\u00e7in 12 Kural<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.getstoryshots.com\/tr\/books\/extreme-ownership-summary\/\" data-type=\"page\" data-id=\"101\">A\u015f\u0131r\u0131 Sahiplik<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.getstoryshots.com\/tr\/books\/how-to-destroy-america-in-three-easy-steps-summary\/\" data-type=\"post\" data-id=\"47648\">Amerika \u00dc\u00e7 Kolay Ad\u0131mda Nas\u0131l Yok Edilir?<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.getstoryshots.com\/tr\/books\/on-tyranny-summary\/\">Zorbal\u0131k \u00dczerine<\/a><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>\u00d6fke \u00c7a\u011f\u0131nda Amerikan Direnci \u00dccretsiz Metanet Sesli Kitap \u00d6zet Metanet, hayat\u0131n ac\u0131lar\u0131yla ba\u015fa \u00e7\u0131kma g\u00fcc\u00fcn\u00fc nas\u0131l bulaca\u011f\u0131m\u0131za dair a\u00e7\u0131k s\u00f6zl\u00fc bir tavsiye kitab\u0131d\u0131r. Kitap, su\u00e7lama k\u00fclt\u00fcr\u00fcn\u00fc ortadan kald\u0131rmam\u0131z ve utanc\u0131 g\u00f6revler arac\u0131l\u0131\u011f\u0131yla kendimizi geli\u015ftirmek i\u00e7in kullanmam\u0131z gerekti\u011fini belirtiyor. Ayr\u0131ca, ma\u011fduriyeti kabul etmek yerine, hedefimiz...<\/p>","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":95237,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_acf_changed":false,"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"yasr_overall_rating":0,"yasr_post_is_review":"","yasr_auto_insert_disabled":"","yasr_review_type":"","footnotes":""},"categories":[4649,2921,4446],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-47808","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-all-books","category-personal-growth","category-politics"],"acf":[],"yasr_visitor_votes":{"stars_attributes":{"read_only":false,"span_bottom":false},"number_of_votes":0,"sum_votes":0},"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":4649,"label":"All Books"},{"value":2921,"label":"Personal Growth"},{"value":4446,"label":"Politics"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/www.getstoryshots.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/Fortitude-by-Dan-Crenshaw-summary-pdf-1024x536.png",1024,536,true],"author_info":{"display_name":"StoryShots - Free Book Summaries","author_link":"https:\/\/www.getstoryshots.com\/tr\/books\/author\/storyshotsadmin\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":4649,"name":"All Books","slug":"all-books","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":4649,"taxonomy":"category","description":"","parent":0,"count":95,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":4649,"category_count":95,"category_description":"","cat_name":"All Books","category_nicename":"all-books","category_parent":0},{"term_id":2921,"name":"Personal Growth","slug":"personal-growth","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":2921,"taxonomy":"category","description":"","parent":0,"count":121,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":2921,"category_count":121,"category_description":"","cat_name":"Personal Growth","category_nicename":"personal-growth","category_parent":0},{"term_id":4446,"name":"Politics","slug":"politics","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":4446,"taxonomy":"category","description":"","parent":0,"count":39,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":4446,"category_count":39,"category_description":"","cat_name":"Politics","category_nicename":"politics","category_parent":0}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.getstoryshots.com\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/47808","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.getstoryshots.com\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.getstoryshots.com\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.getstoryshots.com\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.getstoryshots.com\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=47808"}],"version-history":[{"count":6,"href":"https:\/\/www.getstoryshots.com\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/47808\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":95240,"href":"https:\/\/www.getstoryshots.com\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/47808\/revisions\/95240"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.getstoryshots.com\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/95237"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.getstoryshots.com\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=47808"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.getstoryshots.com\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=47808"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.getstoryshots.com\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=47808"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}